Wednesday, December 31, 2014

New Year's Eve!!!!

1. We made it another year
2. Will the words fleek and bae be retired? Or will they be added to the dictionary like bootylicious
3. Will we work out?
4. I wonder what 2015 will bring?
5. What was our favorite song of 2014? 
6. People who always have full body pics to post almost on a daily basis, do you have someone to just walk around with you to take these pics?
7. Will I actually stay up till midnight?
8. I will make it to The Read Live in 2015......setting up an emergency fund for the trip because I know they not coming to Nashville
9. I believe Adnan is innocent
10. Not making New Years resolutions, but I am working on my 35 while 35 and it is shaping up to be a great list
11. One of my themes for 2015 will be boundaries......people need to learn to respect them and I need to learn how to enforce them.
12. Did you accomplish all you wanted in 2014?
13. What will be different about 2015?
14. I think more people should show love...especially Christians
15. Less social media in 2015
16. Family, you gotta love them!
17. Why is pizza so good??
18. I'm in love with the coco! (Hot coco)
19. Do you miss my random thoughts?
20. Online dating.....not as bad as I once thought, but there are some crazies out there, just like in the real world
21. You might be the one, but if the timing is not right
22. What are you doing tonight? 
23. What is your favorite food?
24. I promise I won't be unless you won't me to
25. Can't wait to see Selma
26. Any good book suggestions?
27. Writing 31 random thoughts is hard......how did I do this everyday for a year? (Going to do it again one of my 35 while 35)
28. I will get married one day and have kids although I think my mother has given up hope
29. Ignorance is not bliss.....educate yourself
30. I love Christmas music and will listen as early as October (or sooner) but the day after Christmas.......I automatically stop listening for awhile,
31. #BLACKLIVESMATTER


Sunday, November 16, 2014

Return of the thoughts......

1. Mimosas and music make me happy! (Don't ask how many I have had this morning)
2. I really like him.....
3. Some people (men and women) should not wear heels!
4. I need a new hobby besides baking and finding new alcoholic beverages to consume
5. No matter what the score I will always be #anchordown
6. Why did I stop during random thoughts again? They are very therapeutic.
7. I think more people should try love. #thatsall
8. I love bacon!!!
9. I fell asleep to early last night......Kim K didn't break the Internet, the response of memes to Lifetime's story of Aaliyah did. Did you see the Chris Brown one???? iCant!!!
10. I really want to do Napa Valley for my 35th birthday......will this happen?
11. Maybe I should have consumed food before I started on my multiple mimosas???
12. I really need a hug these days :-(
13. Any new music suggestions? I have been slipping
14. Early morning service was good, God's sovereignty......not always easy accepting it. Asking why a lot lately
15. Who wants to come cook and meal prep for me today? Don't everyone volunteer at once
16. Cried a lot yesterday.......but always have to remember "God had you! Chill!"

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Happy Birthday to Me!!!!!

1. It's my birthday!!!!
2. Thankful for grace and mercy
3. Learning a valuable lesson
4. Yeah......didn't get what I wanted for my birthday, but still blessed!!
5. Should have some exciting new to post soon....
6. So much easier being fat
7. Two reasons I want to win lottery......pay off student loans and have Eric Roberson song at my wedding (not necessarily in that order)
8. Please have a glass of wine for me today
9. I think my next car will be a jeep Cherokee 
10. Kale tastes good
11. An edible arrangement with chocolate covered pineapple would be very nice
12. One day Lord.......
13. You have to find beauty in the simplest of things 
14. Change is good
15. Cheese and bacon oh how I need thee
16. I love my kids!!
17. Never assume
18. She wants to love, but she doesn't know how......
19. Babies in sunglasses are too cute! This baby fever needs to pause 
20. Just saw a black dude with a rat tail.......was so not ready!
21. Yeah, I am so late for work
22. My nose itches
23. Yeah.....I didn't watch the Emmys
24. I miss you!!!!!!! (in my Aaron Hall voice)
25. My last year being 30 :-(
26. You can't be that stupid????
27. Why do I love mimosas so much?
28. The three Bs make everythjng better......bourbon, bacon, and butter
29. I like you
30. Where should I go to lunch?

Since I am "30" these are honorable mentions
31. Tell someone they are loved today
32. Get to know me......most people don't
33. Snitches get stiches......why?
34. Party like it's your birthday....wait, it IS my birthday!!! Woo Hoo!!

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Been a little while....

1. Why does it have to be complicated?
2. Realizing my random thoughts are very therapeutic
3. Luther Vandross live had to be amazing
4. Emotional eating is winning these days #epicfail
5. Don't sleep on gospel rap......
6. Erro in less than a month!!!!!
7. I can't be bitter, not in my nature
8. Tattoo for my birthday is almost definite.......now shall in be in my ear on my finger......or my foot!!!
9. Birthday's random thoughts will be 34 things I am thankful for
10. The game......I hate it
11. Those days when you want to call out sick, but you can't :-(
12. Will I go see Avery Sunshine?
13. I really don't ask for much
14. My text convos with my close friends......yeah not always appropriate
15. We believe God can deliver, but the testimony I read yesterday.......so many questions #justbeinghonest
16. Hates being taken for granted
17. Music and mimosas are my escape.......see myself consuming a lot of these in the near future
18. I can only be me
19. Viragos won't let you wear flip flops #rude
20. I will not cry
21. How many post it notes do I waste in a day??? Don't ask 
22. Is it basketball season yet?
23. Hard to focus today
24. My cover photos on Facebook......so needed motivation
25. All I want for my birthday.......
26. I miss you
27. Today's morning Facebook status......right now having a hard time truly believing it
28. The hair struggle this morning is so real.......donate to locks for love again?
29. Realizing it is ok to admit things are not okay

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Favorite Song Lyrics (can you guess what song?)


  1. Not because I have been so faithful, not because I have always obeyed.
  2. I woke up around 10 o'clock in the mornin, gave myself a stretch up, a mornin yawn and went to the bathroom to wash up
  3. It's the Thuggish Ruggish Bone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  4. Never thought when I closed my eyes that I would be in for such a lovely surprise I have never felt a kiss like this....
  5. Wanna be loved not for who you think I am, nor what you want me to be,  Could you love me for me?
  6. I come in da club shakin my dreads. thrown dem bows, and bussom dez heads
  7. Relax, I got the good vibrations, before we make love let's have good conversation
  8. Settle down with me and I'll  be your safety, You'll be my lady
  9. Happy Easter! Happy Fourth of July! I hoped you liked your happy birthday bean pie!!!

Friday, June 27, 2014

Pure randomness

1. You make me smile.....I like to smile :-D
2. I am Dark & Lovely ~track 5 YRM
3. Yeah my mother is coming to visit......pray!
4. Rough week, but God!!
5. Eloise needs to get back on Facebook ASAP!!!
6. I stole a gun and took a hostage.......to roll a joint for me (these are the true stories I hear, iCant!)
7. When the creepy guy is obviously staring at your butt......did he not notice that I could see his reflection 
8. Think the hair will go back curly tomorrow
9. People take social media too seriously......
10. Snitches get stitches....do they? Why?
11. Becoming impatient about the situation 
12. Jesus be a 5 hour energy drink for me this weekend......wait I have never had one of those, do they work?
13. I miss our convos, but I understand
14. All of my good days......outweigh my bad days
15. I have been told I can't wear flip flops to the wedding! #rude
16. So much easier being fat!!!!
17. I need to do better about writing my random thoughts
18. Realizing I work too much......I need to slow down
19. I know you are supposed to drink a lot of water, but dude! How many times do I go to restroom in a day?
20. Man, they fuckin’ with us this way because they know our people’s predisposition for hypertension! ~ Poussey
21. I think "ratchet" music is it's own genre.........Migos and Common can NOT be in the same category
22. Erro for my birthday????
23. What will be my next tattoo?
24. No matter where I am if "No Hands" comes on I am in the zone and recite every word #dontjudge me (this has not been tested in the church parking lot yet)
25. Go Dores!!!
26. I so need a hug :-/
27. Get to know me, most people don't 


Friday, June 13, 2014

Basketball

1. First sport I loved and learned, why? I like tall black men #dontjudgeme
2. The game last night......whoa!
3. Anfernee "Penny" Hardaway was my first basketball crush, I still have his Orlando Magic jersey
4. Don't watch as often, but when I do I truly enjoy it
5. 30 for 30:Bad Boys is a great documentary, didn't know the history of Detroit's back to back championships
6. Remember that time Reggie Miller scored like 20 threes in 5 seconds against the Nicks? Use to love Reggie Miller too
7. College or NBA? Which game do you prefer?
8. Not a basketball scholar, but I do appreciate the sport
9. Being tall people assumed a could play basketball....ha! Parents never let me and didn't find out the reason till I was an adult, smh!!!
10. Only been to a couple of Memphis Grizzlies games, but Memphis's love of basketball is like no other #gritandgrind
11. Use to love watching basketball with my dad
12.  My mother always tells me of the Grizzlies players she meets in her building, but when I come home they seem to be in hiding #rude
13. Love & Basketball is one of my favorite movies of all time! "If basketball is all you care about, why you bonin' me? Why don't you bone Dick Vitale?" ~Quincy

Friday, June 6, 2014

Orange is the New Black

(Actually needed my thoughts, but will stick to plan, add if you like)
1. Not The Wire, but ranks up there as one of my favorite shows
2. I might have had a few tears
3. The relationship dynamic of the women is amazing
4. Makes you think about where you come from and decisions you have made in life
5. Wasn't ready for some of the scenes this season
6. Yeah Poussey is still my fav character

Thursday, May 29, 2014

Life

1. Cherish every moment of it!
2. Everybody's life has a purpose
3. YOLO!!!
4. Each day you have the chance to make positive influences
5. Music makes life better
6. I am trying about that life......healthy life that is
7. Life is short, make the best of it
8. Life consists of past, present, and future......they all work together
9. “Life is too short for shitty sex and bad relationships. So go find someone who fucks you right and treats you how you deserve to be treated.” (One day #dontjudgeme)
10. Enjoy the journey
11. Money or titles don't make your life more important.
12. Tomorrow is not promised
13. You know what else makes life better????? MIMOSAS!!!!! (just a few more months until they are back in my life consistently #praiseHim
14. My faith is a major part of my life
15. Life without love.......
16. There is always something worth living for
17. Autocorrect keeps changing live to love, maybe it is a sign :-/
18. You ever wonder if your life would be different if you made different choices in your past?
19. Life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you are going to get ~Forrest Gump
20. So many lessons learned in life.......
21. Have you watched the movie Life? I haven't, but I do own the soundtrack that is pretty good 
22. Documentary on prisoners serving life in prison and how to age for the aging population had me jacked up for a while makes you think
23. The board game of Life, didn't play till I was an adult
24. My life is not like most, but it is mine learning to love it!
25. One of my fears in life......never going on a date
26. What do you want to accomplish in life?
27. I often wondered what my sister thought about life
28. Sunday naps after church is another thing that makes life awesome!!!!!
29. Life is what you make it! Live! Laugh! Love!!!

Monday, May 19, 2014

#operationdeathoffatgirl

1. This is a movement......my movement
2. I need to update the blog more frequent
3. Progress is slow, but still making progress
4. I often say it is much easier being fat, that is my way of venting
5. People often ask what is my weight loss goal, I refuse to answer till I hit my final goal. 
6. If I told you how much I weigh you would be shocked
7. Yes my clothes are becoming too big
8. My goal is to get healthier, if I get skinnier that is a plus
9. I struggle with statements "you would look better if you lost weight" I think, no, I know I am beautiful now
10. This is not easy
11. Women's half marathon in September is part of #operationdeathoffatgirl
12. The proper get hype music plays a major part of the movement
13. What are some things to help you stay fit and lose weight?
14. The assumptions people make about people who are overweight.....stop it 
15. I will never be super skinny and that is not the goal
16. I think my goal will be accomplished in 2 years
17. My goal for this year was 75 pounds....I definitely will exceed that
18. Bread and cheese is downfall, why does pizza have to be sooooooo good???
19. This journey is an interesting one, enjoying and hating it all at the same time, but I know in the end it will be worth it!

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Blessed

1. Despite what I am going through I am still blessed!!
2. Too often people equate material things to being blessed......not good
3. Sometimes just being able to get up and get out......blessed
4. I do believe you were blessed to be a blessing
5. Never take for granted the small blessings in life 
6. How do you define being blessed?
7. Rough few months for me, but each day I try to think of at least one thing I am blessed with
8. Today's blessing......having a mother that loves me unconditionally
9. Do you bless your food everytime you eat?
10. On this weight loss journey I hope I don't lose the blessing of my boobs.....just being honest #dontjudgeme
11. I do struggle with the word "favor" in terms of blessings
12. How bout you bless someone by giving them a compliment out the blue today 
13. Blessed are those that are able to stop eating pizza after one slice
14. I hope everyone has a blessed day!!!!

Monday, May 12, 2014

Struggles

1. The struggle is real
2. You never know what struggles a person is going through
3. Learning to not judge people for their struggles (I am a work in process)
4. Got a painful revelation about some of my struggles this weekend
5. People have different belief systems, but I think all struggle with the idea of what is right and wrong
6. Finding out other people's struggles can be eye opening, for me it shows how hypocritical I can be and challenges me in my belief system in several different ways
7. The hair struggle is real.......(didn't say which struggles I was commenting on today)
8. What if your struggles were broadcast for everyone to see? 
9. I constantly struggle with the idea that I will be single my entire life.......not good
10. Learning to deal with my own struggles........
11. Learning to admit when I am wrong and apologizing when my struggles effect  others for the bad
12. The struggle to be productive on Mondays is ever present!!!! Trying real hard not to get caught up today!

Friday, May 9, 2014

"The Game"

 1. Why does it have to be a game? I don't get it? If you like someone make it happen, tell them, show them
2. Unfortunately......the game has changed ~Eloise
3. I am horrible at games, probably another reason I am perpetually single
4. If it is a game then is there a winner and a loser? Do you lose if the person you tried to "win" was not the person for you anyway?
5. Hate when people say you need "step ya game up" why? Once again.....don't get it. If you are being you what else do you need to do?
6. "He/she got game" does that mean he/she is playing a game with the emotions of another? Don't think that is cool.....
7. Please help me understand "the game"......many have tried to explain and failed
8. Aren't games for kids?
9. Just my random thoughts today on "the game" I just don't get it.........just being honest 

Thursday, May 8, 2014

The Read

1. This is my favorite podcast
2. It gets me through my Thursdays.....and often roadtrips
3. Crissle often says things I am afraid to say
4. Their Beyoncé stanning cracks me up
5. I love when Dustin Ross makes an appearance
6. Ready for today's show to be posted
7. I plan my work schedule on Thursday around listening to The Read
8. I think the Kroger Michelle episode is my favorite episode


Wednesday, May 7, 2014

My feet hurt

1. Why did I walk today?
2. My feet really hurt
3. Is it the shoes?
4. Walking is helping weight loss, but not the pain in my feet
5. Will the pain stop?
6. I have big feet
7. Pain pain to away!!!

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Crying

1. Been doing a lot of this lately
2. Can't do it in front of people
3. There is a reason why I cry
4. I wonder if I will ever be able to cry in front of others
5. You make me cry often
6. Yes I am crying while I type this post


Green smoothies (failed to publish yesterday)

1. I try to have at least one daily
2. Kale is strong, but I like
3. It is taking me forever to drink mine today
4. Strawberries are my fav fruit in my smoothie
5. Flax seed is great in my smoothies

Sunday, May 4, 2014

Feelings

1. Not always easy to deal with them
2. Feelings can be good or bad
3. I had them for you
4. They can make you cry


Saturday, May 3, 2014

Poetry

1. I enjoy it although I ding always understand it
2. It does not have to rhyme
3. Can make you laugh


Friday, May 2, 2014

My phone

1. I love my iPhone
2. Didn't realize how much I used it till it stopped working :-(

Thursday, May 1, 2014

You

1. I cannot respond to "you" because I can't go back down that road again.....

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Things I am thankful for

1. My life
2. My friends who accept me for me and love me unconditionally
3. Mimosas, you know how much I love mimosas?
4. A job that I love flaws and all
5. A support system of people I can turn to in times of need
6. Ratchet music and it's ability to increase my productivity
7. As the old folks say a reasonable portion of health, despite my weight (which is decreasing) I have no major health problems and probably can do more than some skinny people (don't assume skinny people are healthy and fat people are unhealthy)
8. The Read, one of my favorite podcasts! Crissle and Kid Fury give me life weekly
9. The ability to see various perspectives in situations, my not agree, but I can see your point
10. A church home that I love, not as close to the people as I use to be, but I am thankful for lessons taught and growth I have had since being there 
11. Sundresses!!!!! The only time I like to dress up
12. The ability to laugh at myself, I am goofy and weird, but I love it
13. Music in general, it puts me in my zone. It speaks when I can't, it ministers to me when I am in my quiet place
14. Food!!! Yes I love to eat and cook.
15. My family! We are special, but I love them all.......even the crazy ones
16. My text convos......the dissertations, the random GIFs, they moments or social activism intertwined with ratchetness and sometimes inspiration and advice
17. I do love my hair, not always easy to manage, but thee ability to wash and go is providing convenient in this workout journey
18. Headphones at work to tune out the stupid people
19. Scandal!!!!! Even in this not so awesome season the joy of watching and interacting with friends on social media is fun!
20. Even you.......lesson learned
21. Flip flops!!!!!!! Love! Love! Love!!
22. Ability to not easily cry......my emotions are truly guarded most of the time
23. The ponytail! It is prob my favorite hairstyle
24. Netflix! Binge watching television shows and discovering indie movies is a joy for me
25. Social media, the good and the bad. I love how it connects people
26. My faith, yes I question, but my faith has gotten and continues to get me through so many things
27. Sunday naps!!! A gift from God!
28. Spring and Summer because I hate cold weather
29. All of you that take the time to read my random thoughts. They are a small piece of what goes on in my head.....scary right?
30. What are some things you are thankful for? Taking time to focus on those things can change your outlook on life. Think you always have something to be thankful for.

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Reasons I Love Memphis!!!

1. It's my hometown, duh!!!!!
2. We have some of the best commercials in the world? (Dope out your veins, mo money taxes, I can keep going.....)
3. Despite its flaws the examples of successful black people I saw as I was growing up was amazing
4. Where else can you get 50 biscuits for $1.25 at Jack Pirtles?
5. Best barbecue in the world!!!
6. Home of Eightball & MJG and Three 6 Mafia, classics!!!
7. Not to mention the soul and blues music influence that comes from Memphis
8. The home of Beale Street
9. Our love of basketball
10. Dude, Graceland is there! Elvis!!!!! 
11. We have a freakin Pyramid!
12. When I look at the schools my classmates got into and the careers and lives they have now, Memphis public school system has produced some pretty awesome people
13. The history of Memphis, never forget
14. The view from my nom's apartment to sit back and just look at the Memphis bridge at night all lot up is amazing
15. Although I have never lived in Memphis as an adult, the activities and changes several of my friends are doing in Memphis I truly love
16. My family is there! I may only be able to take visiting in 48 hour increments, but those 48 hours are priceless!
17. Most people have friends in high and low places......crackheads to senators, namely mother who knows who to contact to get things done
18. The creativity that flows from Memphis is amazing
19. Home of the National Civil rights Museum
20. Every neighborhood is different, rep your hood!
21. Where most people's grandparents were from Orange Mound or South Memphis
22. The Mississippi River and riverfront park
23. The foundation Memphis and it's people gave me
24. Memphis is truly a great city
25. The First 48, Memphis was picked because of high solved crime rate
26. Memphis people can talk bad about Memphis, outsiders can't!
27. The churches and traditions, those hats!!!!!
28. The various dances that have started in Memphis, classic!
29. What are some of your favorite things about Memphis?

Monday, April 28, 2014

Thoughts while waiting till marriage.....

(really wasn't in mood to post today so I reposted, with a few edits, this list based on discussion with a friend last night)

1. My ultimate goal is to wait till marriage
2. This is not always easy
3. It makes sense to me
4. I often find it funny how people believe God for the material things, but don't believe he can sustain you while waiting
5. I do get tired of people's assumptions that being a virgin makes you a "good girl" associating sex to being bad or good is not cool
6. Realizes this decision has caused some people to not even attempt
7. Gets frustrated when people say they can respect my decision, but they just can't do it, to me it is saying you have no power over choices you make
8. Even if you are not waiting till marriage I truly don't understand how people can randomly sleep with people they hardly know....birth control is not 100% can you see yourself having a child with this person?
9. Waiting till marriage coupled with sometimes feeling I will never get married.....not a good feeling
10. I have never heard anybody say they regret waiting.....but I have heard plenty of people say they regret not waiting
11. My faith is the main motivation for me waiting amongst a few other things
12. I am not a unicorn!!!!
13. The look when people find out......sometimes reason why I usually don't disclose or avoid discussion
14. I still don't understand how you accidentally have sex.......there are several steps involved before you get it in
15. Please don't assume that I am naive
16. I have several friends who have waited till marriage......so it can be done
17. Temptation is real.....if someone says it is not that's a lie
18. My views are not of judgment but more of my thought process
19. Why do people equate sex to love?
20. People who say it is easier for me because I have never......please don't assume (assuming is a major theme today)
21. This is my story.......my life.....my walk.....so until you walk in my shoes
22. There is a reason why my short list are people that I can't have.....just being honest
23. This is something I am not ashamed of, don't know why anyone would be, but  I also don't look at it as a badge of honor.....it is what it is
24. Surprisingly.....my mother has no clue, she assumes too much
25. When that day comes......
26. What if I never get married?
27. Although I do feel sometimes I am the only one out there......I refuse to believe it
28. Really thinks people should have more open conversations about sex and sexuality......especially in the church.



Sunday, April 27, 2014

Sunday Naps

1. There is nothing like a Sunday nap!
2. Sunday naps are a gift from God
3. When I was little and got home late from church my whole family took Sunday naps, they are tradition
4. No matter what time I get out of church I think about when will I nap
5. Don't let me go to brunch after church and have a few mimosas, Sunday nap will turn into deep sleep
6. Yes, Sunday makes nap special, yeah you can take a nap on a Saturday, but trust it doesn't feel the same
7. After writing these thoughts I will probably go take a nap before Leverage comes on
8. No matter where you nap couch or bed it is heavenly
9. If I ever have kids I will teach them the importance is Sundat naps
10. Remember not to start Sunday nap too late, will mess up your night sleep
11. Do you take Sunday naps?
12. Glad I don't work during the day on Sundays now that was really messing up my nap flow
13. I think I might get in two naps today
14. A family that naps together stays together
15. Falling asleep during a movie helps me nap
16. Mimosas help lengthen Sunday naps 
17. When napping I try to wake up before the evening news
18. Had turkey sausage for brunch......yeah helping with my sleepiness
19. Working overnight some weekends really helps me take Sunday naps
20. I think you should have a Sunday nap
21. One reason I like to go to early morning service......more nap time #dontjudgeme
22. Think I will nap on my couch today
23. I wish I could have a Sunday nap during the week, I think I would be more rested
24. I hate when my naps are interrupter by phone calls
25. Cherish the Sunday naps, because the days you can't take one you will definitely miss them
26. Is this an ode to the Sunday nap
27. Nap time!! Woo Hoo!!!

Saturday, April 26, 2014

Prom

1. All these prom pics on fb have me feeling nostalgic
2. I only went to my senior
Prom
3. I remember stumbling across my dress at David's Bridal for like $50 and my mother had the nerve to make me pay for it out of my own money
4. I went to prom with a friend
5. I had a blast at prom
6. I remember going to an after prom gathering at an hotel and running into some of my mother's sorority sisters (oops!)
7. Had a scholarship breakfast the day after prom, me and my date both got scholarship and we were on STRUGGLE!!
8. I forgot what hotel prom was at.
9. I still have the pics from prom
10. I think we ate at J. Alexander's by Wolfcahse before hand, that was when Wolfchase just opened, that was the spot
11. I had to have a date to go to prom, why? If I didn't I couldn't go cause I had no driver's license
13. I didn't like my hair for prom
14. I asked my prom date to go, quite hilarious
15. What's up with these "prom-posals" we didn't do all that
16. If you go to multiple proms do you need multiple dresses
17. My mother's prom date was actually the father of one of my high school classmates
18. I feel old when I see all these prom pictures 
19. What was your favorite prom memory?
20. Don't think my parents have me a curfew for prom
21. Seeing some of these prom dresses I am like WHOA!
22. I actually wore heels to prom, can you believe it?
23. I even danced at prom in front of people!
24. Think the theme was "if only for one night" I think :-/
25. If you are bold post your prom pic, ha!
26. Prom season is a memorable, enjoy it. It is not about how much money you spend, but having fun with classmates and friends, making memories!

Friday, April 25, 2014

Hair

1. No you may not touch my hair  
2. Yes my hair is real
3. My mother has the same type of hair as me
4. If I didn't have my neck tattoo I would so cut off my hair again
5. My hair is naturally curly
6. Don't assume my hair is easier to manage because it is different
7. I really want to dye my hair purple
8. I want afro puffs
9. I love my ponytail
10. If you use all these chemicals on your natural hair doesn't it defeat the purpose?
11. Whatever hair you have embrace it
12. Can I rock a a mohawk?
13. I am not mixed
14. If you say if I had your hair one more time!!!!
15. Why do people feel it is okay to touch my hair?
16. Hair is actually down today.......left ponytail holder at home
17. Maybe blonde streaks?
18. Rain doesn't let my hair be great when it is straight
19. Maybe I will straighten out my hair next week
20. One day I will wear my hair blown out in a huge fro, one day
21. Bantu knots and my hair never cooperate
22. I love coconut and shea products on my hair
23. Please don't sniff my hair
24. Random, but I love bald men with no hair #dontjudgeme
25. Hair, it is just hair.....don't let it consume you and dictate how you feel about yourself

Thursday, April 24, 2014

My College Experience

1. Vandy! Vandy! Oh Heck Yeah!!!
2. My college experience was not the norm, but it shaped me to who I am today and I am thankful
3. You remember those Fisk gym parties? Dude it was hot!
4. Going to an HBCU was not for me, but  glad I attended a university with several in the community
5. I hate you student loans!!!! I hate you!!!!!!
6. I wouldn't trade my college experience for anything!
7. I was team natural in college before it became the "it" thing to do
8. I met some of my life long friends at Vandy! Friendships I will always cherish and love. 
9. My brother from another mother I met freshman year of college and we are still going strong! I think my mother loves him more than me :-/
10. I didn't graduate with the best GPA, but I did graduate with a job and eventually a career......praise Him!!!
11. I never had a roommate in college and I am thankful for that
12. My original plan was never to go toVandy, I was actually had sent my intent letter to go to Georgia Tech
13. My church community was a great support while I was in college
14. Did I mention I hate you student loans??????
15. The classes I took, the lessons I learned! #priceless
16. I remember one time we were at the club on Clarksville Highway (think it is a Citi Trends now) and they got to shooting, I remember a male friend telling us all to just run! We piled in a friend's Mitsubishi Eclipse and left
17. My senior year there was one class last semester (Engineering Economics) I STRUGGLED in.....I left exam and went to professor and was balling! I was like I had to graduate and if I didn't pass......I wouldn't be graduating, well praise Him I left that class with a C- and that was nothing but GOD!!!
18. Going into college I never struggled in anything.....well that all changed and taught me a lot
19. Parents getting divorced, sister dying,   2 women who helped raised me dying, and mother getting breast cancer.......all happened while in college, yeah times were rough
20. There are some secrets of college that will stay secrets......thank God for good friends
21. What are some of your favorite college experiences?
22. My alma mater is better than yours :-P
23. I learned to appreciate the amenities that Vandy had when I went to visit my friends at TSU........wasn't ready
24. College life, learn, have fun, and make memories. I know I did!

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Social Media

1. People take it too seriously
2. Do you remember the days of collegeclub and blackplanet?
3. No, I don't need to know every place you go everyday
4. People use social media differently, make it work for you
5. I have 3 blogs and a tumblr that I get most of my thoughts out on, why? Most people don't read them, but it allows me to release
6. My username across most of my social media accounts are the same
7. When I took a twitter break it was hard for me to get back into the swing of it
8. On Facebook I have begun to dwindle down my friend's list. Not that I don't like you, just want to make friends list smaller.  I do it based on your birthday.....
9. I hate social media drama, had it once and never again. It ain't that deep
10. Not a fan of people blasting significant others or the other parent on here.
11. You can find the most inspirational, ratchet, sad, or mean things online........view things wisely
12. Sometimes I go back and lock at old posts or blogs and think about what was going on back then or how much I have changed, puts things in perspective 
13. I love how social media reconnects and connects people.
14. My random thoughts series has been interesting......
15. I wonder what will happen 20-30 years from now when it comes to social media
16. It has become a part of our lives, embrace it
17. I still have a few friends that have neve had a Facebook page
18. How do you use social media in your life?
19. My first blog was called "If You Only Knew" and it was started in 2007, WHOA!
20. Think people were more productive at work before Facebook
21. What is your favorite social media site?
22. Don't put all your business on social media!!! And if you do don't be shocked when people judge you for what you post
23. I enjoy social media!!! Not addicted, but it plays a part in my day to day interactions with several people, don't know if that is good or bad :-/

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

My relationship status

1. If one person asks me why am I still single!
2. I am not less of a person because I am single and you are not better because you are married
3. My relationship status has been the same my entire life........I will just leave it at that
4. People assume it is just easy to change my relationship status, like I can flip a switch
5. One thing I like about being single, I don't have to coordinate my schedule with anyone, I mean if I want to go to movies I go when I want to
6. Some people assume because I am single and most of the time happy I don't desire a relationship, not the case. 
7. Revealing my relationship status to my mother will only happen if it looks like we are headed toward marriage, my nerves can't take her knowing before them
8. I was going to post a quote on relationships, but most of them are stupid
9. This topic was sparked by a comment by one of my coworkers.....reason I don't talk about personal stuff at work often
10. Yes I want a relationship, but no I don't want to take just anybody
11. Tried online dating to change my relationship status #epicfail
12. Don't think I will ever post relationship status on Facebook.......nope, not gone do it
13. Why do people treat being single as if it is a bad thing? 
14. Whatever relationship status you are in, be happy, be you, cause if you are not what is the point?
15. I think I am going to start telling people "it's complicated" when they as me are you seeing someone........maybe they will leave me alone
16. If you can't accept my flip flops you can't change my relationship status
17. Surprised I even made this a topic
18. I am open to questions about why I have been forever single, just not stupid questions. Think before you ask
19. I often wonder when I tell people why they find it fascinating, I am not a unicorn
20. Maybe one day my relationship status will change, but until that day I will live life being me and enjoy each moment of it
21. First step to changing my relationship status is going on a date, well maybe talking to strangers, yeah I don't do that
22. Don't assume by what I have said in this post about where I am at in this, #thatsall


Monday, April 21, 2014

Ratchet Music

1. I have a true love for ratchet music
2. Ratchet music truly helps me become productive at work, it puts me I my zone
3. Memphis and Atlanta have some pretty nice ratchet music collections courtesy of Triple 6 and Crime Mob (not to mention the indie up and coming artist)
4. You might say ratchet music is a guilty pleasure of mine
5. "It's Cold in the D" is one of Detroit's finer contributions to ratchet music
6. Monday's playlist at work is usually dedicated to ratchet music
7. Yes sometimes I listen to ratchet music on my way to church #dontjudgeme
8. What are some of your favorite ratchet music selections?
9. Videos for ratchet music 
10. My urge to dance when ratchet music comes on and my inability to dance with rhythm often poses a problem
11. Ratchetpiece theater is a favorite YouTube series of mine
12. The video for Stilettos is classic!!!
13. What are some of your favorite ratchet lyrics?
14. Although I enjoying ratchet music, ratchet music in the club is not a good combo, good chance you will get hit
15. Lil Boosie's cd release will be a double dose of ratchet (New Orleans deserves and honorable mention for ratchet music)
16. Emmanuel Hudson's "She Ratchet" is a great ratchet song pointing out the characteristics of ratchet women
17. Is ratchet music exploiting ratchet people?
18. I come in the club shakin my dreads, throwin these bows and bustin these heads ~Crime Mob
19. Bumping ratchet music on a sunny day with windows down is amazing
20. I wonder what ratchet music I will listen to today
21. Ratchet music! Get you some!!

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Faith

1. Definition: complete trust or confidence in someone or something.
2. I struggle with my faith at times
3. Faith has gotten me through a many a situation
4. I learned the hard way that you should never put faith in people
5. I have faith in God, brought up in a Christian household, but sometimes wonder if I was brought up in a household of a different faith or no faith at all what would I believe in?
6. I am a person of logic.....messes with my faith often, things have to make sense to me
7. My faith waivers a lot when it comes to if I will ever go on a date or get married, easy for others to say wait and trust, but unless you have been in my shoes......
8. What do you have faith in?
9. Do you think faith is personal or should you be obligated to share it?
10. Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase. ~Martin Luther King, Jr.
11. Faith of a mustard seed.....
12. Do you have faith in yourself?
13. Walking in faith is hard
14. I know a couple of women named Faith
15. I don't always understand it
16. If I have half the faith that my aunt Mary had!
17. Reflecting a lot on faith this Resurrection Sunday
18. Don't judge others because their faith is at a different levels yours
19. I am thankful for my faith
20. Today I had faith that my gas tank would get me home from church, even though the gas light came on a little before I expected it........but I made it, Praise Him!!!
 


Saturday, April 19, 2014

Flip Flops

1. Oh how I love flip flops
2. I need to re-up my supply soon.......you can never have too many
3. Will be wearing flip flops to church tomorrow (with a dress of course......you know I always promise my mother will dress up on Easter Sunday)
4. If you wear flip flops please invest in a pumice stone AND make sure your toes or done.
5. Although my best friends hates when I wear flip flops he has learned to except it
6. Once I was over a friend's house and as I was leaving (they lived on a hill) it began to rain and I lost one flip flop, it washed away down the hill in the water
7. I now will still wear flip flops when it is cold
8. I have some cammo flip flops
9. The inventor of flips flops is a genius!
10. Old Navy flip flops are a fav
11. Technically speaking I am not supposed to wear flip flops at work, but.......until I am directly told not to I will buck the system #rebel
12. My love of flip flops came after college which is weird
13. Do you love flip flops? 
14. If I ever get married flip flops will be my shoe of choice.......my friends know this! 
15. Don't over lotion your feet when you wear flip flops, sliding in flip flops is not cool (but please use lotion ash is not cute)
16. Don't wear socks with flip flops that is tacky!
17. Why do people rush when Old Navy has $1 flip flops? If you can't afford them at regular price.......that is a problem
18. If you don't wear flip flops what is wrong with you???? Just kidding.......maybe
19. Today's flip flip color is black because they match my sweatpants, duhhhhhh!!!!

Friday, April 18, 2014

Why it is so much easier being fat

(Thought I was going to write about Scandal, ha!)

1. I don't have to workout as much, you know how working out messes up my television schedule?
2. Cheese and bread tastes so much better than twigs and berries
3. My hair was easier to manage when I didn't sweat a lot
4. Being fat means people are less likely to sit next to you at movie theaters.....I need my personal space
5. My body didn't hurt as much when I didn't work out
6. I now have to really think about what I am eating and drinking!!! No mimosas (for now is killin me)
7. Although I know losing weight is better for me in the long run, the process I am so not a fan of
8. I didn't have to invest in proper running/workout shoes
9. I miss my mimosas
10. It is easier to maintain being fat, once you are un-fat you got to keep it up
11. Meal planning can be fun, but time consuming, when I was ok with being fat I could just order a pizza or go to Wendy's and be done, now I have to cute, sort, prepare, and cook
12. Making a delicious pound cake infused with alcohol and eating a slice daily was fun
13. Did I mention I miss mimosas?
14. When fat people don't comment on how they can tell you are losing weight, which to me is awkward cause I know I am losing it, but don't feel it
15. I am okay being fat
16. It is just much easier being fat
17. More insulation in the winter when you are fat
18. This list was made in fun and I know there are more benefits to being un-fat, but I wrote this just some things out. In the end my health is most important and although I don't have any health problems now, I know if I continue to stay fat they will come :-/

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Beauty

1. How do you define beauty?
2. Do you think your are beautiful?
3. I think some of the most physically beautiful people have the ugliest attitudes
4. I am beautiful inside and out
5. Is beauty really in the eye of the beholder?
6. Sunset on the beach is such a beautiful thing
7. I find beauty in a endless mimosa paired with a nice brunch
8. People should try to find beauty in the simple things.....a flower, a melody, the random smile from a stranger
9. What do you find beautiful?
10. Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it ~Confucius
11. Don't let anyone ever tell you are not beautiful
12. You know what I find beautiful? A person who is confident yet humble
13. Why did my coworker just give me a beautiful piece of chocolate shaped in a bunny? 
14. The most beautifullest thing in this world ~Keith Murray
15. I am having a beautiful hair day #thatsall
16. I find the strangest things beautiful
17. Tell someone they are beautiful today 

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Friendship

1. I have some of the best friends in the world
2. I love my friends who accept me for who I am, but challenge me to grow
3. Friends don't let friends drive drunk (or text while drinking........I have so stop doing this)
4. You say he's just a friend.....oh baby you!!!!! (Yes I just sang this at my cubicle)
5. I can count my true friends on one hand
6. Sometimes it is hard when you are going through your own personal pain while celebrating the joys of your friends, not jealousy, but just letting them enjoy their time without burdening them with your own issues 
7. Some friends I don't talk to often, but when we do, love it
8. Friends who love ratchet music are friends who stay together
9. Friends can argue and fight, but you know in the end you have each other's back
10. You have that one friend that when they talk you just shake your head? Yeah, me either
11. Most of my friends no longer live in the same city, that just means I need to travel more
12. Text message convos between some friends are some of the most therapeutic convos, but........in the event of my death, my true friends will delete the evidence of some of the tomfoolery we discuss
13. People change, friends change, but it is beautiful when you change and grow together
14. Having a variety of friends can be interesting and fun.......especially when you have them all in the same room
15. One friend I miss dearly........things were never the same
16. There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend with chocolate ~Linda Grayson


Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Love

1. Too many people confuse lust with love
2. I think people take the word love too lightly
3. Is it wrong that I love pizza more than I love some people?
4. Can honestly say I have never been in love
5. Some of the people I loved most in life have caused me the most pain
6. I don't think there is such a thing as unconditional love
7. Wishes people would stop treating relationships like business mergers. If there is no love.....all you have are things
8. Sex and love are not the same thing, I think you shouldn't have sex without love, just my opinion
9. What was your first love? Mine was music
10. Somedays it think about giving up on love.....just being honest
11. A mother's love I hope to give it one day
12. I do love flip flops
13. I think a lot of people are hurt because they were never shown love as a child, or a warped view of love
14. Between love and love ~Frank Ocean (lyric from one of my favorite songs)
15. I think all people have the ability to show love, just think most people don't know how

Don't call it a comeback.....well maybe you can

I think I am going to come back with my random thoughts, but each day will be a theme.....I will still do the number of thoughts based on the day it is, but I might not post everyday, but I will post at least once a week. Yesterday while writing on my original blog If You Only Knew. I realized I missed my random thoughts (amongst several of my Facebook friends) The random thoughts helped me get things out, questions in my head, feelings that I can't always say.  If you have any suggestions for topics feel free to let me know!

I am not promising an entire year, but we shall see where this goes..........hope you enjoy the ride!!!! 

First post coming later today.....15 things about, still deciding

Saturday, March 22, 2014

Made it a year!!!!!

Yesterday was the year mark for my random thoughts!!! Woo Hoo!!! I keep going back and forth in my mind on if I should continue.....I honestly don't know yet. I have come up with a couple of ways to switch it up, but can't decide....Thought about have themed random thoughts, each day pick a topic and write each thought only on that topic. I also thought about a positive thoughts theme where each day I list the positive things that occurred to me that day.  I honestly don't know.....BUT I do know will not post them on facebook anymore, and although I might try to write them every day, if I don't oh well.


Friday, March 21, 2014

All good things must come to an end

1. Being happy for friends when you are going through your own personal pain......hard
2. Can you believe it? A whole year of random thoughts!!! 
3. I want to be bad this weekend.....real bad
4. Cried yesterday :-(
5. I can't feel my legs....seriously
6. Maybe next year will be themed random thoughts....
7. What I want most is
8. Our convo scared me yesterday
9. I am not a player I just crush a lot
10. I love Christy's idea....Napa Valley 2015???
11. So tired of waiting......
12. I miss Jack Daniels
13. Make it count
14. I never can tell you :-/
15. So Fred Phelps is dead.....
16. Should I go see Divergent?
17. I miss my friends :-(
18. Exercising despite the bodily pain gives me more energy
19. What men desire is a virgin who is a whore~unknown 
20. For 2 second I had a perfect vision for a not so hood face tattoo......
21. One day someone will want me as much as I want them......or is this just a fantasy???

Thursday, March 20, 2014

One more day

1. Yeah the urge to be bad is real......
2. Buck the system
3. Tried a new smoothie this morning, blah!
4. What was EYE thinking?
5. Pulled up half marathon training schedule.......May 10th
6. My minds telling me no, but my body is telling me yesssss! (I listened to R. Kelly yesterday)
7. Face tattoo?
8. Scandal tonight!!!!
9. My body hurts
10. Can I kick it?
11. Mack Wilds can sing
12. Do you know your purpose?
13. I love when I do a get job
14. I am not about THAT life
15. Maybe I should just have a kid
16. I wonder if there will be a new episode of The Read today
17. Why did the chicken cross the road?
18. Thinks more people should discuss sexuality and religion.......too many people who a scared of what might come out of the discussion
19. I am really not a violent person outside my mind
20. I question, I question a lot.........what if I never know the answers?

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Feeling better

1. Why are you wearing a "fur" jacket and it is 60 degrees outside??
2. How many miles will I do this afternoon?
3. Hates early morning meetings
4. Won't He do it!!!!
5. When your clothes are getting looser....
6. Don't like Chobani Greek yogurt in my smoothies
7. Can I kiss you?
8. Why do you entertain foolishness?
9. Hates early morning meetings
10. Heck yeah!!!!
11. Ponytail is staple these days.....any suggestions for hair and working out?
12. What time is it?
13. I miss our convos
14. Slowly I am getting rid of all the alcohol in my fridge by cooking with it
15. I love my smile
16. Baby fever......please stop 
17. Don't stop! Get it, Get it!!!!
18. The struggle is real!!!
19. Really believes you can't control who you love, but you can control how you act on that love. Mastering your actions is the hard part......

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Headache :-(

1. Some people don't even realize how hateful they are
2. I love to cook, learning how to love to cook healthy
3. Weather messed up my workout plans yesterday #rude
4. Out of the mouths of babes......if you don't want to be called a THOT (still hate that word) stop acting like one
5. Zumba tonight!!!
6. When one of the elders laughs when she over hears you say that you have given up alcohol and mimosas are my weakness.....I am who I am, my name is Ursula and I love mimosas and I don't have a problem
7. Had the strongest urge to text you last night.....but I didn't #progress
8. I hate you allergies!!!!
9. When you list some of your favorite CDs and Fred Hammond and Snoop Dogg end up in top 5....... #dontjudgeme
10. You have no idea how hard it is sometimes
11. Tried to listen to Skrillex this morning, can't do it, nope!
12. I am going to miss random thoughts, but realize I need to focus more on my original blog. Got a lot in my head that I need to get out
13. Blind Side dude is coming to the Titans......interesting
14. Yeah, the urge to do cartwheels down the aisle at work never stops
15. Still don't think it is appropriate to scream out big bootie hoes at my desk no matter how many times that song pops on my head
16. Times like this I wish I had someone to talk to
17. I think I will go to the Outkast tribute......I can miss Scandal one night :-(
18. Have you heard the new Candy Rain on the radio? Whose idea was it to remix it? I like it, but still......

Monday, March 17, 2014

Can't believe it has been a year

1. True Detective, WHOA!
2. Netflix has one of my favorite movies now, #score
3. The countdown begins......
4. MUST have a productive week
5. Didn't like the cantaloupe in my smoothie
6. Interesting revelation this weekend......don't know when I will be ready to share, or if I will ever share
7. I really don't like stupid people
8. As much as I want people to understand........they don't
9. When your bonus is larger than my salary?????? 
10. I often find myself asking why me?
11. Did you ever care?
12. I don't have on green, if you pinch me I will punch you in your face and then smile :-D
13. Scraping your knuckle is no fun :-/
14. My weight loss goals are for health more than looks. But.....if I can stop shopping at Lane Bryant I won't be mad
15. Birthday tattoo on my wrist or foot?
16. I can't feel my arms from Sarurday!!!! Are you serious????
17. I challenge you to a game of horseshoes! HORSESHOES!!!!!!!

Sunday, March 16, 2014

Enjoy!

1. I am a very good cook
2. I love you
3. Getting better
4. You are special
5. You just don't get it
6. He needs you
7. Will I tell you?
8. Dance to the music
9. Love this show
10. We can do this together
11. Two miles tomorrow?
12. Change is never easy
13. Rested today
14. Don't be afraid
15. Just pour and hope for best
16. Never ever!

Saturday, March 15, 2014

Good morning

1. Will work out
2. God still loves me
3. I miss my sister
4. I wonder does she know?
5. That is what you do?
6. Love this song!
7. I have to stop getting sick
8. Built for you
9. I was in my feelings last night
10. Giving up alcohol is hard
11. I am different and that's ok
12. Music puts me in my zone
13. You are so attractive to me
14. I wonder what the weekend will unfold
15. You are loved

Friday, March 14, 2014

Almost a year!

1. The roof is not my son......but I will raise it!
2. This current illness is messing up my workout flow
3. When you do everything right and things still go wrong :-(
4. I love flip flops!!!
5. You showed me why people can't be trusted :-/
6. First date before the end of the year???? Ha!
7. I HATE being sick :-(
8. Will finish True Detective this weekend
9. 3 months till Orange is the New Black.......that is too freakin long!
10. People take Facebook too seriously. People use it differently.....some post a lot some post not so much. Does it really affect how you live your life? 
11. I told you what irks me and you continue to do it? Yeah.......I'm done
12. I can't compare my life to others......this is my journey and it has a purpose. Might not always understand it, but I must live it
13. Outkast tribute the same night as Scandal........so torn!!!!!! What would you do????
14. Being super sick has taught me to REST! The show will go on without you.

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Still sick

1. Can't stop coughing
2. Actually went to work today
3. Physically drained
4. But God!
5. Your own destiny
6. My throat!
7. I need someone to take care of me
8. No way!
9. Will not cry
10. I get it
11. Nice try
12. What happened to the plane
13. I need to rest


Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Don't do it

1. I need to eat
2. I will go to work tomorrow
3. Fever go away
4. Change......
5. Get out the bed
6. Law & Order
7. Pizza!
8. You are stupid
9. Water
10. My hair
11. Finish the sentence 
12. A new day

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

I love my bed

1. Really sick
2. Need rest
3. Tired
4. I need to eat more
5. But God!!!!!
6. Need strength
7. No weapon
8. Cheese
9. Love this show
10. Back to sleep
11. You are beautiful