Thursday, March 31, 2016

Figuring this out

1. I'll be back!!! (In my terminator voice)
2. Student loans, screams!!!
3. Admitting it was my first step
4. Watching less and less tv daily....
5. Time to truly focus on me and what is next
6. Why do you have to live in a different city?? I miss my friends
7. You have no neck!! No neck!!
8. Why are people still shocked by what Donald Trump says?? He doesn't scare me anymore....his droves of supporters do
9. First of all......yeah don't come for me
10. Oye como va
11. No miles today 😞 guess I will go to Zumba! Never mind today is a day of rest
12. Between bitmoji and ebroji do I really need to text in words? I think the gifs and pics cover almost anything
13. I'm too cute to go to jail
14. Oh my gosh I love you! My friends are amazing
15. First graders plotting murder now? Nope!
16. Should college athletes get paid? Why or why not?
17. Shutting down fb temporarily will be hard, but will be worth it. Social media is a part of our lives now, balance is needed
18. Curly blonde might appear tomorrow...working out daily makes it hard not to wash more frequent 
19. Viagra commercials make me laugh. Is your heart healthy enough for sex?
20. Finally catching up on Scandal (caught up for tonight!!!!)
21. Just want to hug you
22. No meetings again today!!
23. All my life I had to fight!
24. Maybe I can fit in brunch this weekend....
25. Pizza, wine, or both tonight????
26. Don you remember your 3rd grade teacher? I remember mine cut the tip of her finger off in one of those duplicating machines that made those purple colored print copies that smelled good
27. This rain is not helping the cause out
28. Some people are just negative....avoid these people
29. Your entire life should not be broadcast for social media. Glimpses of my life I might share, but never assume
30. Have you ever dated a stripper?
31. It has been real! Time to focus on me and some personal goals. Random thoughts blog will still be updated so they are not completely going away



Tuesday, March 29, 2016

I love you

1. The hypocrisy can't you see it?
2. Realizing why I keep so much to myself
3. When you are in the middle of working out and your shoes go on to glory....Nike outlet came through last night! 
4. Wasn't going to finish out the month of fb random thoughts....
5. One word to describe me
6. Insomnia truly sucks....started writing random thoughts at 1am this morning 
7. I watched the interview, nope!
8. You say he's just a friend, OH BABY YOU!!!!!!!!
9. Delusional fantasies
10. When you realize you may not be able to fit brunch in this weekend....thug tears
11. Realizes I was really having a moment, that won't work
12. Empire is back tonight!!!!!
13. Must catch up on Scandal before tomorrow
14. Being a supervisor is hard, why is so hard for people to just do their jobs?
14. Mediocre is NOT an option!!! TWICE 👏🏿 AS 👏🏿 GOOD👏🏿!!!!!!
15. Wanna be loved
Not for who you think I am
Nor what you want me to be
Could you love me for me? ~Buju Banton

16. That's what you get for speeding punk!
17. Who invented bras? It had to be a man
18. Approximately 625 calories in a bottle of red wine....if I don't eat dinner I don't have to do en extra workout #dontjudgeme
19. Don't compromise your integrity for fame, you are getting major side eye right now
20. One more day!!!
21. Days without multiple meetings is amazing!!!
22. Going to be a very interesting day
23. My vocal skills are amazing
24. Please cultivate relationships outside of social media. 
25. I can't keep hoping you will understand 
26. The "not today satan" coffee mug....appropriate for work? You think they will get the hint?
27. Do you know how important you are to me?
28. Coke in the morning makes Ursula a happier person
29. My hair is now in a ponytail
30. Pan seared zebra nuggets! Thank you fb memories for reminding me of blue ivy's diet



It's a miracle

1. Ending random thoughts on fb on the 31st....needs a social media break, well a fb break
2. Tomorrow I have an important meeting....praying
3. All in my feelings right now, thank you fb memories
4. Aiming for 4 miles this evening....what is wrong with me?
5. It's all fun and games until someone brings up somebody's momma...don't you talk about my momma!!!
6. Focus on the things you love, that bring you happiness, things that help you grow
7. What shall I cook for dinner tonight?
8. Blessed assurance! Jesus is mine!!!
9. Last night I asked the girls what their favorite song on the radio is....why were they shocked that mine was DJ Luke Nasty's Might Be? That song is always stuck in my head
10. Please stop telling me how I should feel
11. Let that shit go ~a wise person 
12. I already don't like you....then you do one of things I hate most??? Nope!!! You have been added to the list....you don't want to be on that list 
13. You are not deep you are just stupid
14. Too often people hide behind the Internet....words, memes, rumors do hurt people. 
15. I need new tennis shoes
16. Will you ever understand?
17. What is your favorite news station?
18. My Fitbit has officially died....broken, gone to heaven. Apple Watch don't fail me now!
19. I truly have no meetings today, none!!!! Let's see how much work I get done
20. Anthony Hamilton's tiny desk concert!!!! 
21. Figured it out! Facebook break is definitely happening
22. Brunch will be had Saturday....now what unlimited mimosa spot will I hit up?? Who wants to join?
23. I will never forget when she said good girls want a thug, one who can put that good lovin on them and maniputate their minds (there are no misspellings in that sentence)
24. My favorite doctors are leaving :-(
25. This face swapping on snapchat, stop! It is freaky looking
26. Pray for your friends, you honestly don't know all they are going through
27. I will never be your trap queen or your ride or die chick (I value my life) but I will have your back and support you 
28. Self care is a must!
29. I like big butts and I cannot lie!!! Where is Sir Mix-a-Lot these days???




Monday, March 28, 2016

Stomach hurts

1. Do I really have to go to work today?
2. Great convo last night...
3. Are you worth it???
4. Yeah....should not have drank the bourbon last night
5. Hope everyone got a message on Ressurection Sunday, although I was not able to attend church speaking with some of the women at the shelter I was reminded that no matter what stage you are in life you have something to be thankful for
6. You are the prototype
7. His yoke is easy
8. The beauty you see is a reflection of you ~Unknown 
9. I would attempt to go to Publix yesterday and it was closed! How rude!
10. I am worried about you
11. I am learning I am not the norm, my life is my life, my journey....don't compare me to other people or what you think I should be
12. Emotional eating won last night....yes I ate the entire pizza #dontjudgeme
13. Do we really fear God?
14. Riley helped pick the shoe deal, how cute!
15. What were your thoughts on batman vs superman? I keep hearing mixed reviews from people
16. Writing random thoughts toward the end of the month is hard
17. You like me or nah?
18. I have a lot to think about
19. You still got Halloween decorations up? Nope!
20. Career change?
21. Do you want to have children? More children if you already have them?
22. The blogger app has been so helpful to keep up with writing on my blog...I sometimes forget to log on via computer
23. As an artist please get paid for your craft. I support you
24. Will you still love me if I told you?
25. Interesting blog article I read last night especially with the timing of recent revelations 
26. Damn! Damn! Damn! In my Florida Evans voice 
27. Everybody needs people....people who encourage you, challenge you, motivate you, hold you accountable....you got people?
28. Admitting you have feelings for someone is not always easy....realizing those feelings might be better kept to yourself is probably best for all parties involved is even harder (see #26)




Sunday, March 27, 2016

It's Easter!

1. Just because of the color of my skin?
2. When you see stop sign knocked over I guess they didn't stop...
3.  It's Resurrection Sunday y'all!!!
4. Anybody checked on that "bishop" who buried himself?
5. That video gave me so much life
6. I care about you so much
7. Can't wait to see the new hair color curly!
8. Yes I am working today, but that does not mean I can't focus and think about the resurrection and what it means
9. If we can have text convos in gifs what is your purpose?
10. Praying for the family of the Vandy alumni killed in Brussles, #anchordown
11. The Organized Noize documentary, had no clue they wrote waterfalls
12. We are going to make this happen
13. Do you wear your watch face outside or inside? I have been told I wear mine wrong, but it fees weird wearing it the other way
14. Yeah going to slow down on random thoughts on Facebook everyday
15. Glad Christy and family made it back! Can't wait to hear vacation stories over brunch and mimosas #hint
16. Just want you to be happy
17. Scale is not liking me this week, how rude!
18. What are you having for Easter dinner?
19. Figures I have to focus this week
20. Who is the best basketball player of all time?
21. 2 and a possible
22. Life is short, live on purpose, learn on purpose, and love on purpose
23. Can't deny it anymore
24. Some things you will never understand 
25. I am hoping for the best
26. Excited about getting back to reading, up for any book suggestions
27. The smile you put on my face #thatsall


Saturday, March 26, 2016

Hit em with the flex

1. My mood is happier when I don't read what is going on with the republican presidential candidates.....they make me sad
2. "Tell them, don't hate. Get on my level, hoe" ~Eloise, also got confirmation of this statement at church last night....not those words, but same meaning
3. Pictures to come later
4. Facebook memories of my random thoughts from a couple of years ago...funny how #6 has a lot to do with what happened yesterday
5. The Everest college parody commercial! #classic
6. Family first!
7. "To be like Jesus does not necessitate some mysterious, metaphysical action by God. Rather, it requires living a life characterized by loving relationships, those that are liberating, empowering, and life-sustaining." ~quote from book I'm reading currently
8. Getting excited! Yet nervous
9. So sleepy! So sleepy!
10. How do you drive down the wrong direction on the expressway?
11. But on the 3rd day!!! Will save almost any sermon
12. I was supposed to workout this morning :-(
13. Does not like the word nappy
14. Safe travels!!!
15. WebMD will have you thinking you have cancer.....steps away from the web browser
16. Do you want power or influence? 
17. Will not do brunch! Will not do brunch!
18. Celebrate differences
19. I want bacon! Lots and lots of bacon!!
20. I might have a problem when I have to frequently begin texts convos with "I have not been drinking"
21. Who all is going to church tomorrow?
22. One last convo with my dad....
23. Just be you!! 
24. Should I do a video of my random thoughts again?
25. I don't think love is a choice, I think how you choose to express or act on that love becomes the choice
26. Jimmy crack corn and I don't care!!!


Friday, March 25, 2016

Figure it out

1. I was very random last night....
2. It's Good Friday!!
3. So this person really talks too much, but they are nice....I want to tell them to shut up, but it is hard
4. Facebook snooping yesterday gave me some sad news :-(
5. One more day
6. I did not workout yesterday m #epicfail
7. One more chapter to read of Sexuality and the Black Church, so many thoughts
8. Not going to church on Sunday, have to work
9. Must drink water!
10. Do you ever wonder about people you have lost contact with?
11. Today's playlist will be classic
12. First step is admitting you have a problem....I made it through yesterday without drinking wine
13. I need to catch up on Scandal this weekend, I so have been slipping
14. Late start today, but I so needed that sleep
15. Who got themselves a new Easter outfit?
16. All I came to say is Happy Easter Day!!!
17. So I wonder if that "bishop" is still gone be buried today so that he can rise in Sunday morning?
18. Critical thinking is a must
19. I will not do your job
20. Daredevil, Unbreakable Kimmy Schimdt,Orange is the New Black....do I really need cable?
21. I figure it will happen one day....one day
22. The candy jar is calling my name! I must resist!!
23. One day someone is going to appreciate and love my randomness
24. Take time to think about the meaning of Easter this weekend
25. Daily reminder.....flip flop season makes me happy



Thursday, March 24, 2016

Learning slowly

1. "Does the flag filter for tragedies only come in European countries"
2. Can see the light at the end of the tunnel
3. Don't think it is a secret anymore
4. Should I try tinder again? Is tinder truly online dating?
5. Please don't rain
6. So ready for Beyonce
7. The answer to your question is yes
8. Determined to have a great day
9. I can have an affair with nobody else but you
10. I can't find my umbrella, rude!
11. Just ask if you want to know
12. When will I stop doing my random thoughts?
13. You lied to me.....
14. White savior movies....stop
15. You have to love family!! I often do it from a distance
16. Finishing one book tonight! Then starting the next! You can get a lot accomplished when you turn off the tv and Netflix 
17. So this "bishop" is burying himself in order to recreate the resurrection....i will wait
18. You know what makes me smile? Music, sleeping, and you....now if I could have all three together? Let me stop
19. Phife's passing really has me thinking about my own mortality...tomorrow is not promised
20. Will definitely be writing on my first blog this weekend....when you found out
21. Proud of my friends!! They do big things!
22. Time to step out of my comfort zone
23. Having an educated faith....more than just an emotion 
24. Why did I dream about the new doctor? My dreams have been very random lately



Wednesday, March 23, 2016

RIP Phife Dawg

1. The hate fueled by the republican presidential candidates....beyond scary
2. Thankful for a friend who talked me out of pizza and wine last night
3. Just a few more days!!!
4. White privilege, why is it so hard for you to see?
5. 2 a days are hard, but I am on a mission
6. Oh my gosh I love you!
7. You already know what today's playlist is going to be....
8. Productive morning! Reading, catching up on news, washed dishes, worked out, and washed hair....now will I get to work on time?
9. Will I get in 4 miles this evening???
10. Israe Houghton....so many thoughts
11. Where does all the money go???
12. Seeing old school pic of my dad pop up in my memories....alcoholism is rough
13. I will remember to take my head scarf off before going into the office
14. My tshirts that get the most responses "I love bougie black girls" and "I like my men tall, dark, and Idris Elba" these are my favs! Wearing one to workout tonight
15. I so need a massage
16. What was the last book you read?
17. This time next year.....Napa Valley will be on my mind
18. Don't take the little things for granted
19. God is still in control
20. No it is not a Jherri curl, no you may not touch it, yes it is my real hair, and please stop staring 
21. What would you do if you could not fail?
22. Think I will listen to The Friend Zone today, although Hey Fran Hey's voice really irritates me
23. Can I kick it?



Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Late today

1. "They rip off our culture then ignore our struggle" ~Riley Freeman
2. Shall I go see Spike Lee speak tonight?
3. I truly have a day with no meetings!!!!
4. I know I can ramble....sorry
5. I miss you!!! In my Aaron Hall voice
6. There is evil in the world
7. You inspire me!
8. Do you believe in soul mates?
9. See the way you make me feel...
10. Brunch without booze is just a sad, late breakfast (wise words)
11. Belgium has my prayers also
12. I think jobs should have a spring break that doesn't count against your vacation days
13. Body shaming....stop! Skinny does not equal healthy and fat does not equal unhealthy.
14. Loving my new book "sexuality and the black church" several excellent points and I have not even got to the chapters on homophobia and the church
15. I might want to get dressed for work this morning....my bed always holds me hostage after I work out, but get moving!!!
16. Where do you find inspiration?
17. Andrew Caldwell actually has a song on iTunes....nope!
18. Will you shadow dance for me....love that song
19. I honestly don't know why I post random thoughts on Facebook daily still, only supposed to post there once a week
20. Still figuring this thing out
21. Just get to know me, most people don't
22. Everything has a purpose....even bugs


Monday, March 21, 2016

Skin issues :-(

1. I need "that's racist" gif more and more these days unfortunately 
2. He's back!!!!
3. When I get 7 hours a sleep at night that is a miracle!!! Now can we make is 7 continuous hours? Waking up at 1am is not cool
4. It's Monday! Let's make the best of it!
5. Frank Ocean still trippin
6. Yesterday's sermon..... #confirmation
7. Where is your favorite place to travel?
8. Ready to discuss it
9. Toxic people really need to go
10. I love the First Family!
11. I was going to let the car get out....then I saw the Ted Cruz sign in their  yard, nope!
12. Smile! You're on candid camera!
13. If you only knew....
14. When you get a Coke and it is just right!!! Today is going to be a good day
15. Yeah....you were definitely not worth it
16. Take the time to pray for someone else today
17. What shall be my musical playlist today? 
18. Too many emotions right now
19. Whatever happened to Soul 4 Rrsl? Do you ever dream of candy coated rain drops?
20. Memories over things
21. Your got one question to ask me and I will be completely honest...what would you ask?


Sunday, March 20, 2016

Tired still

1. Horrible dream last night....Della Reese gave me a perm without me knowing. I went off and was traumatized
2. My body is still in recovery mode
3. Understanding more of the development of children and the importance of nurturing, teaching, and encouraging. As an adult I think we forget that we had to be taught things that come to us as second nature now.
4. This thought was almost too revealing....glad I stopped
5. Mimosas!!!!!!!! 
6. I enjoy what I do, but sometimes I truly question if this is what God wants me to do 
7. Lemon and blueberry combo is nice 
8. It is so complicated
9. Spring flowers are coming!!!! And so are allergies!!
10. Gas prices trippin again!
11. The pics from the lock-in were great!!
12. Just want to be hugged and held by you again
13. Strawberry or grape jelly?
14. Still listening to Daryl Coley's "The Melody of Praise" and has me thinking about if we truly let God reign over all areas in our lives? I mean ALL areas?
15. Is waiting till marriage to have sex realistic? Why or why not? 
16. I need a dill pickle with a peppermint stick in my life
17. Mamma we made it!!
18. You are beautiful no matter what they say....
19. I figured it out! 
20. Facebook recipe videos will have you thinking you can be on Top Chef....nope




Saturday, March 19, 2016

Lips hurt

1. Overseeing a church lock-in of 30 girls....but God!!!
2. One more week!!
3. You still don't know
4. So my neighbor shot an intruder....glad she is packing
5. Self hate is no good
6. Mimosas, IHOP, and Daredevil season 2 today!!!!
7. Future and The Weekend "Low Life" I like
8. My mimosas made me do it shirt is on the way!!!!
9. You have roaches?? Nope!!
10. I really don't like the terms baby mamma and baby daddy
11. I have a plan
12. I survived!!
13. I just want to be with you
14. So needs a massage
15. Don't come for me!!
16. What can I do different?
17. If you follow my tumblr...
18. Over 5,000 steps before 10am on a Saturday??? Score!
19. Texts from you always make me smile


Friday, March 18, 2016

Don't crack!

1. #ALLBlackLivesMatter
2. I may or may not need a flask today...
3. You're beautiful, you brighten up my day
4. Thankful for the creatives in my life, they give me inspiration
5. I may or may not have forgotten to take my head scarf before going into the office....going to be a long half day at work (at least it was pink)
6. I miss my Vandy granny, I need to call her. Love her!
7. Today's musical playlist was so close to being music inspired by Knuck if ya Buck....
8. Allergies you suck!!!
9. Just let your soul glow!!!!
10. Why can't they coexist? Why can't I just be?
11. I just realized I didn't listen to The Read yesterday, GASP!!!!
12. Still blessed and God still loves me #thatsall
13. When I am alone in my room....
14. I need a new iPad....well I want one, but I don't need one...
15. Lack of adequate sleep makes Ursula....a little special
16. Yeah, brunch and unlimited mimosas are in the forecast for Sunday, who is down?
17. I love colors! Highlighters in various shades make me happy
18. I find myself saying "stop hammer time" at work and then breaking out and doing the typewriter.....what is wrong with me??
19. Yeah....the f bomb was sent a few times last night and I meant it!



Thursday, March 17, 2016

Random stop sign

1. What if Trump is actually elected president?
2. Bourbon, bacon, and chocolate chips....think I know what my next kitchen experiment will be
3. What if I told you I wasn't completely.....
4. I wanna know where the gold at? -people of Mobile, AL (love that clip)
5. You got caught stealing $800 worth of flip flops from Old Navy? Seriously? You know how many pairs of flips flops that is? Were you going to sell them on the black market? I can't!!!
6. A few more things to do before Friday! I am not superwoman, but trying my best to get it all done
7. So excited for you!!!
8. Listening to Daryl Coley yesterday had me jacked up. Music that inspires, teaches, and brings back memories...thankful for the legacy he has left
9. 9 days!!!!! (Promise it was random that 9th random thought was about the number 9)
10. Please recognize your hypocrisy.... 
11. Almost ready to truly talk about it
12. Daredevil binge watching this weekend!!! So geeked!!!!!
13. Meet me at the altar with your white dress, we ain't gettin no younger we might as well do it....yeah people actually used this as their wedding song 
14. What is your favorite Stevie a Wonder song? I think mine is "If It's Magic"
15. "I would feel much better if he has a sugar daddy!" -a friend
16. When you have 4 hours of meetings in your day PLUS at least 8 hours of work to do.....yeah the math does not add up
17. Growth and comfort can't coexist....taken from another friend's random thoughts this morning. #confirmation



Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Interesting place

1. Thank you Ohio
2. I have been up since 2am.....yeah it will be a long day
3. Why is the "thong song" stuck in my head???
4. Video clip I watched this morning reinforced #9 of yesterday's random thoughts. #thankyou
5. It starts with love
6. The Mimosas made me do it....shirt purchased 
7. Who will be the NBA champions this year?
8. Bought 2 new books (paper books not on my tablet)!!! Sexuality and the Black Church by Dr. Kelly Brown Douglas and Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates. So excited to read!!!!
9. Praying for save travels, fun times, and great family memories for my friends!!
10. So my president is doing his job and has a Supreme Court justice pick....republicans what you gone do now?
11. If you pinch me tomorrow because I am not wearing green the "Memphis"
will come out
12. Shopping for teenagers and kids is hard! Hope I did a good job
13. Between now and Friday so much to do! Yes I can!!!!! 
14. If your happy and you know it clap your hands!!! (Was going to say sexy, that works too)
15. Was slightly disturbed that I had to pay $1.99 a gallon on gas this morning
16. I am trying to become more comfortable with having the mentality of screw what other people think. Live your life! Love! Learn! Live!!! #thatsall





Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Figuring out this thing

1. Trying a new juice bar this morning....I think I like
2. So much easier being fat, but once I reach my ultimate weight loss goal I am going to Napa!!!
3. Barack Obama will always be my president....drop the beat
4. When you can just talk in gifs...love it!
5. I am not superwoman, I can't do it all
6. I've got a date this weekend!!! Woo Hoo! (Just kidding! Lol! Maybe just speaking things into existence)
7. Why did I think St. Patrick's day was yesterday?
8. Do you know anyone who needs a Beyonce ticket?
9. Never stop learning! Your craft, your history, your faith, learn and grow!
10. After this weekend I might need a brunch debriefing on Sunday....but the way my weight loss goals are set up unlimited mimosas and burboun French toast might derail that
11. Love how nothing has changed now that you know
12. How many bubbas can I get through today?
13. One of my kids got me with "deez nuts" last night....kids still do this? She thought it was so funny....I was so confused
14. Mickey Mouse is back on my Apple Watch, he makes me smile
15. Please go vote today if there are elections in your state!!! (As long as you are not voting for Trump)


Monday, March 14, 2016

Singing this morning

1. In my feelings today
2. Green tea is my go to when I don't feel good
3. Listening to old school Tonéx today
4. It is not my fault your database sucks
5. Not sharing random thoughts on fb for a little bit
6. If I could just curse you out one good time
7. Dealing with stupid irritates me
8. It worked! It actually worked!
9. I figure this time next year I will be close to my ultimate goal
10. A vide random thoughts will be happening again soon
11. This life is about more than you
12. I really want to cry
13. Oh it is St. Patrick's day....
14. Figure it out yourself


Sunday, March 13, 2016

My eyes are not awake

1. The first amendment says...."Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the government for a redress of grievances." so...tell me why people want to bring this up when people protest Trump?
2. Relationship goal posts....don't like them.
3. Scale and I are friends again....not besties, but friends
4.  I am doing too much, crashing soon....
5. This losing an hour has me jacked this morning, my eyes are in struggle
6. Shrimp and pesto pizza is on the menu this week....let's see how this turns out
7. “It’s not who you are that holds you back, it’s who you think you are not.”
8. Maybe Gatlinburg weekend for my birthday?
9. Everybody got a hustle....can we just work on perfecting our craft? Being a great at one thing versus being mediocre at a bunch of things?
10. Planning a lock in for teenagers is  not easy
11. Stop! Collaborate and listen!!
12. I wonder how many people actually read and enjoy my random thoughts blog
13. Corrine Baliey Rae featuring King -"Green Aphrodisiac" listen! Enjoy! #thatsall



Saturday, March 12, 2016

Feel your emotions

1. Not today satan! ~Chicago, 2016
2. Why does Ray J have new music? Why is it being played on the radio?
3. Let me run my fingers through your dreadlocks....love her music
4. I love when my random thoughts spark convo and share info that I or the people who read them don't know. 
5. Malia and Sasha better slay!!!!! They get it from their mamma!!!
6. “An intimate relationship does not banish loneliness. Only when we are comfortable with who we are can we truly function in a healthy way. Two halves do not make a whole when it comes to a healthy relationship: it takes two wholes.” #wordsmeanthings
7. Sleep last night #epicfail why couldn't I get 2 hours of continuous sleep?
8. When I share the story of my father...his death...really having a moment
9. Evolving is a part of life. I think people too often cling to the past and don't grow. Learn from the past, cherish it, but you can't live in it. 
10. Ariana Grande's ponytail needs to go!!! Is it her hair??
11. Do you know? Do you understand? I wish you did
12. Memphis dialect......classic!!!


Friday, March 11, 2016

My nose hurts

1. I have yet to hear an intelligent argument about why someone supports Trump...I'm truly willing to listen
2. The wine got me last night, didn't even make it to Scandal! Tried Ménage a Trois....I liked!
3. So Floetry is coming back to Nashville and the day before Beyonce.....hmmmmm
4. My scale was trippin this morning....well actually I have been trippin :-( grilled meat and veggies are in my meal plan now
5. Dwele's "I'm Cheatin" is a fav! One day...
6. I can sang! And no one can tell me different, humph!
7. I so love you!!!
8. These next 2 weeks are super busy, but it is worth it
9. I have to was my hair this weekend....straight or curly??? I'm getting excited about the blonde! Just a few more weeks
10. What is Rhianna saying in her song work? Seriously it sounds like gibberish 
11. I'm stylin! Profilin!!! (Who said this? I honestly can't remember)




Thursday, March 10, 2016

Lips are better

1. White privilege....Maria Sharapova. Had that been Serena? Let me stop
2. So the side chick shows up at the wedding...what would you do?
3. Emotional eating won last night....not good
4. My random thoughts are just that, random, some give insight into me, but most you should never try to decipher into what I am thinking or feeling, take them for surface value
5. Me and Mariah go back like babies and pacifiers ~ODB
6. Nivea smooth sensation with shea butter....essential
7. We have become spoiled....was not happy that it cost my $21.59 to fill up my SUV this morning....yes the gas light was on, but that is besides the point 
8. Listening to old school Canton Jones and his song "Cute" now irks me....my salvation is not tied to rather or not I wait till marriage to have sex. The church and sexuality.....things must change on how the convo is framed
9. 3 deadlines today for the trifecta of drug companies......yeah I will be having a bottle (I said a bottle you read that right #dontjudgme) of wine tonight during Scandal
10. I so love it when you laugh and smile. Your happiness makes me happy


Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Over did it

1. “The police could terrorize the Black community daily, yet if one Black person successfully defended himself or herself against a police attack, they were called terrorists.” -Assata Shakur 
2. When you are just happy that you got 5 hours of sleep!!
3. Our convo yesterday really made me smile 😊
4. I got hot sauce in my bag....no I really don't, I hate hot sauce
5. Are you where you want to be in life? I mean are you where you should be in this journey of life? Happy? Complacent? Eager? Blah?
6. That Ebony cover!!!! Slay!!!!!
7. I may or may not have had a Samoa doughnut from Five Daughters (hangs head down in guilt)
8. Getting use to Spotify.....not sure if I like yet. Any tips?
9. We be all night!!!!!!!!!!! Drunk in Love!!!! (I sound just like Beyonce)



Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Sniffles are not cool

1. Back to reality today...I needed that break
2. I have goals and aspirations...you won't find them on social media
3. Always the single friend, but I love my married peeps! 
4. Bernie Sanders....where does he stand on international policies? Serious question, realized this weekend I honestly just know his domestic platform
5. I only had 100 emails to go through after being off work for a few days...that's a miracle
6. Praying for those who have lost loved ones, several people are experiencing losses right now
7. “I have loved someone that doesn’t love me, I have been loved by someone that I don’t love, I’m not truly sure which is worse. To be hurt or to hurt someone”
8. Almost ready to talk about it...almost


Monday, March 7, 2016

Lips are sexy

1. I get how it can be news to some of you that people are victimized by systems legitimated by your nation, countrymen, and god. But I’m black and female and southern. I call that Tuesday. ~Tressie McMillan Cottom
2. Through Facebook memories I have been doing random thoughts for at least 3 years....whoa!
3. I have the day off...what shall I do? I need to finish last season of House of Cards before I start the new one #dontjudgeme
4. One thing I don't like.... Branding of people. What I mean by that people continuously try to create this "brand" or "image" of themselves, but is it really you? I mean I get it....just don't like it. What happens when that brand is damaged? You are still you...more than the brand you created.
5. Why do I wait till the last minute to pack, but takes me weeks...okay months to unpack and out up my suitcase?
6. It doesn't change who you are. Just an aspect of you. Don't let it define you
7. Nashville needs a brunch festival. Someone needs to make this happen 


Sunday, March 6, 2016

Hard to deal with

1. Unapologetically Black....live in it
2. Loves catching up with old friends. Years can go by and some things never change
3. Love should not be complicated
4. Got a great word at church today, now I have several things to focus on and think about
5. Brunch festival was amazing and worth it! Will def be an annual girls outing 
6. What shall be my road trip music? Gospel? Ratchet? Soul? Country? Up for suggestions 


Saturday, March 5, 2016

ATL Shawty!

1. The violence at Trump rallies.....those who do not speak out are just as bad
2. I love when I hear good news from my friends. My friends are freakin awesome!!!
3. Brunch festival here we come!!!!!
4. God is in control, whatever happens next I do know I'm good
5. When someone asks why I like music so much the best response I can give is so often music lyrics are the words I can't bring myself to say or put together. We all have that one (maybe more) song that gets to us because the words illustrate so much in our own lives


Friday, March 4, 2016

This seasoning is life

1. "If people loved black people as much as they loved black culture everything would be fine"
2. The new Kendrick will definitely be road trip music today. Switched to Spotify just for this. (Oh and maybe I should pack...)
3. Yeah just read the word vibrator instead of vibrations.....totally changes meaning of sentence.
4. Things will never be the same


Thursday, March 3, 2016

My hair is fabulous!!!

1. Do you ever wonder why some people refuse to acknowledge or even understand why what they are doing is racist? Just because you have one black friend...just because you say you are a Christian, just because you think you are a good person, guess what??? You can still be racist
2. Dustin's break down of Gangsta Boo's Don't Stand So Close to Me was on point and so relevant....applies in so many areas of life. Memphis rappers be droppin that knowledge #dontslip
3. Thankful for friends who love you unconditionally. 


Wednesday, March 2, 2016

They know

1. In Atlanta stripping is a regular job ~a friend
2. Yesterday was interesting....on a web conference with a couple of doctors in Italy. Let's just say I understood nothing they said and hope to God they were just reading from the PowerPoint presentation