It's Halloween!

1. My momma's birthday, word!!

2. Think I know the costume!!

3. Seriously who is going to brunch with me tomorrow?

4. I think the more admit to myself the harder it becomes

5. 31 random thoughts is freakin hard!

6. $50,000 for a doll??? You know what I can do with that??? Student loans begone!!!!

7. Feaux deep people stop....

8. My last three Facebook searches, funny! (Thank God for clear)

9. Given up chicken is going to be harder than I thought

10. My bed holds me hostage too much, tew murch!!!

11. Halloween costumes have evolved....I know y'all remember them sweaty masks

12. It gets better

13. That one (or more) family me member you just smile and shake your head when you see them

14. Back to once a week random thoughts on Facebook next week

15. Need to write on my original blog, I have been slipping.....think the title will be "I wanna love you"

16. Must wash hair....is it Wednesday yet?

17. Some days I just want to be bad

18. #blackgirlsmatter

19. Penatonix's new cd, nice!

20. When is there not a Law & Order marathon on television?

21. I can always wash clothes, but gold and put up in a timely manner? That's a miracle (as I look at he pile of laundry I just put on my bed)

22. Do you think you are beautiful? I do!

23. Booty, booty, booty, booty, rockin everywhere! (Did I type enough booties?)

24. Waking up late for me is 7am, and this is cool, but when your body finally gets accustomed to staying up late.....I need my sleep!

25. When you get to do what you truly love for a living.....one day!!

26. Gale Harold from Queer as Folk is on the episode of Law & Order......he is a cutie 

27. Hoping one day I will be able to verbalize it

28. Need to schedule my next tattoo

29. I don't eat cold cereal, not a fan

30. If you don't sing random song lyrics  or give me side eye when I do it.....we can't be friends

31. A smile can disguise a whole lot....

Shakenup

1. The bad thing about mimosas is that they have too much orange juice in them.

2. Did you see that picture of The Game????

3. Texting while drinking is dangerous 

4. Don't lie!

5. Really needs a hug

6. It's 2:30 am and I am writing my random thoughts now because I can't sleep.....I will finish them later

7. Realizes why I am drinking more.....right or wrong it is what it is

8. Being a responsible adult is not always fun....example pay day when you pay all your bills.

9. Do you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth?

10. #blackgirlsmatter

11. Too much to do and not enough time!

12. Do Jaden & Willow Smith ever go to school? Did Kylie Jenner ever go to school?

13. Can you count backwards from 100?

14. Must conquer fear

15. Asking myself is it worth the risk?

16. Today is so a Starbucks day

17. Flip burger this weekend

18. New Lalah Hathaway.....will be in my happy place today! How does she sing in chords?

19. Will I ever get married?

20. What really are chicken fries?

21. Zola and Jess......what else will we find out?

22. When your friend asks you are they texting drunk or sober Ursula....

23. Do I have to go home for Thanskgiving?

24. Sometimes I miss playing the flute, band geek.....those were fun times!

25. Love Patrick Ian Polk's movies, great indie movies, great stories 

26. Did not consume talenti last night, but cheap pizza and wine did help

27. Explaining to you your inherit privilege becomes frustrating......why can't you see it?

28. What are you going to be for Halloween?

29. So blessed!!

30. For some strange reason my mother likes to shop at CitiTrends #dontjudgeher

Do your job

1. Do your damn job!!

2. What is a normal annual bonus? 

3. This day has started off awful

4. Wish you were here

5. Too many people twist the Bible for their own agenda....stop

6. Why can't we have unlimited mimosas daily?

7. Some of my 35 while 35 list I am losing hope on....

8. I think you are cute

9. Should couples work in the same department or office space?

10. I was pissed Empire was not on last night 

11. Dustin Ross, just want to be his friend

12. When work gets in the way of focusing on your podcasts that is just rude!!

13. I really don't ask for much

14. I wonder how long my hair is going to grow

15. I am going to leave work on time!!! (I got jokes!)

16. What is your favorite type of gum?

17. Will I ever go on a date?

18. Do you smoke weed? Do you think weed is good or bad?

19. Change can be scary

20. The Game had a 2.5 come out? Confused me this morning

21. Love her!

22. Still need a hug, red wine, and pizza....its Scandal night so might get 2 out of 3

23. Do you think gentrification can stop?

24. Don't be quick to judge a person's actions or life......until you walk in someone's shoes

25. I have never......you fill in the blank

26. Gospel music, really hadn't heard anything new that truly speaks to me

27. You going to jail now!!!! (Watch the kid fury clip...will always give me life)

28. Love shouldn't hurt #thatsall

29. Please baby please!!!!! (In my Rudy Huxtable voice)

Rain stop please!

1. 8 hours of sleep last night!!!! #score

2. Do I really have to give up my flip flops?

3. In the morning when I rise......

4. Really needs a hug, red wine, and time to just let some things out

5. Just because winter is coming does not mean you stop taking care of your feet....a pedicure is needed

6. These mattress king commercials......nope!

7. Kids are smart, they ask questions, this is good thing

8. Beats by Dre headphones....do they make your ears sweat?

9. Everybody wants to be a nigga, but nobody wants to be a nigga -Paul Mooney

10. Almost forgot!

11. Love her!

12. Lotion is your friend!

13. Verbalizing your thoughts and feelings are very therapeutic 

14. Strangest dream last night....who is Wilson? Are you getting a divorce? How does this work? (Think the late night chicken wing snack is messing with my head)

15. When I go home to Memphis I admit.....I get lost, but I refuse to use my gps on places I should know how to get to! 

16. Can't keep living in the past, cherish the memories, but move forward

17. Now where will I do brunch Sunday? Up for suggestions.....unlimited mimosas are preferred 

18. At least be honest with yourself!

19. Who kidnapped Hakeem?

20. Is Tupac really dead?

21. As much as I post on social media.....don't ever assume anything about me.

22. This morning's theme song is You're so Beautiful!!! Up, down, up, down, up, down!

23. Missing my dad and my sister :-(

24. Love my convos with my cousin Kenny, don't talk often, but when we do, good times!

25. Haunted Houses....nope! I am gone pay you to scare me? That makes no sense at all!!

26. She left her mark on me......Erro lyrics always are on point

27. This morning I pulled up to work and took all of me to get out the car.....the struggle is so real!!

28. Jiffy cornbread....is it really cornbread? Or is it cake made out of  corn meal? When was the last time I had jiffy? If the only cornbread you know how to make is jiffy can you actually cook?

Changing

1. Starting your 2nd 52 ounce bubba before lunch......the restroom is my friend

2. "How is that racist?" -white proverb

3. Why do stupid people scream the loudest? Just because you are loud and talk over everyone does not make you right

4. Lunch today....kit kat, m &m's, reeses, and twix #dontjudgme

5. Admitting it......50/50

6. I miss our text convos

7. Think I figured out my Halloween costume!!!! (It's not Gucci mane)

8. That video.....a damn shame!!

9. Love her!

10. I like the fb comments on my random thoughts

11. My hair......mad I had to miss my appointment

12. Think people need to think and not just regurgitate

13. That article on worship really blessed me this morning.....justice, sacrifice, transformative

14. My random thoughts are truly random and only a piece of what goes through my head......if you only knew!!! (Hence the title of my first blog)

15. I really miss you...

16. As soon as this last pack of bacon is consumed out of my freezer really going back to being a pescatarian.

17. The God I serve is a God of love..... 

18. Should I do a random thoughts video one day?

19. Is it worth the risk?

20. Yeah.....brunch every Sunday after church. Necessity 

21. Still pissed at Frank Ocean!!! I need new music!!!

22. To move or not to move....that is the question

23. The new car smell is gone :-(

24. All I want for Christmas is You!!! (Michael Bublé's version is a fav)

25. Suit or hoodie.......doesn't even matter in some people's eyes

26. Everyone has a vice? What's is yours? Just because it is not illegal still doesn't make it right

27. Why does red wine, cheese, and bread have to be so freakin good????

Tears that are not joy

1. Do you love your job?

2. Feels good when you can talk, unfiltered and honest

3. Realizes mimosas and brunch with friends (or solo) rejuvenates me for the week

4. I hate the word agree

5. Need to come up with a Halloween costume.....I was told I can't be Gucci mane.....I was going to draw and ice cream cone on my face, simple! Brrrrr!

6. Black intellectuals breaking down the vernacular of ratchet music while determining what is really wrong with Fetty Wap's eye.....classic! (Fetty is money and that is scar tissue, not his brain)

7. Not always easy to love and accept your own flaws.....it is a process

8. Doing New Edition moves as you are stuck in traffic on the way to work.....don't laugh at me

9. Love her!!

10. Going home to Memphis I always learn something new

11. You're a mean one, Mr. Grinch

12. Beyonce is not the best singer, great entertainer, but great singer....nah!

13. Barrel of Jack Danieks costs $8,500 at Costco......just in case you were wondering 

14. I should be at work by now.....

15. The hit sign gets you caught up!!! Krispy Kreme I rebuke you!!!

16. I must go to grad school! I must!

17. That blog post was not read...that might be a good thing

18. Do you think jealousy is a bad thing?

19. These Bart Durham commercials and billboards.....stop!!!

20. I do miss my family

21. Don't knock it to you try it!

22. What is your favorite version of Silent night?

23. I don't have low standards and I am not superficial, but stable housing and a job (legal) are 2 basic requirements for a relationship 

24. Has the trap queen replaced the ride or die chick? Are they the same? Are you one of the above?

25. The one thing I want for Christmas costs nothing.....

26. Watching kid fury videos with my cousin and aunt, hilarious!

Too much!!

1. Yesterday's random thoughts were not done to travel and alcohol consumption (not at same time)

2. Feels good to discuss things that you can talk to very few people about

3. Love her I do

4. I have to get better

5. Brunch today!

6. Time for a change

7. I must do better about life

8. Chinese food is good

9. My mouth still hurts

10. Red wine is good

11. Resting!!! 

12. My friends are better than yours

13. I know my limitations

14. White Collae is a great show

15. My skin is tripping

16. Tomorrow is back to reality

17. Brown liquor is good for the soil

18. Must do better

19. I had a rough weekend

20. Sleep with him

21. Common to you

22. Must do better with tutor

23. Loved that text

24. I need a new television 

25. Don't stall

One town!

1. It's over

2. Speak life

3. I love Memphis 

4. So tired 

5. Ready to get in my own bed

6. But God!

7. That's not how this works

8. I love my family 

9. Law and order is a great show

10. Lover or a fighter?

11. Need to rest

12. Need a pedicure 

13. My mother is special 

14. Netflix and chill 

15. Do you like me? I like you!

16. Felt like rice in my throat 

17. Massage is needed

18. Love her I do

19. Where have you been?

20. You can't be serious?

21. I passed 

22. Why do you keep eating ice?

23. In control!

Tests

O1. Road trip!

2. Don't know what you got till its gone

3. Are you serious?

4. Love Dustin!

5. This drive makes me sleepy

6. Time for a change

7. She is beautiful

8. I get it!!

9. Thoughts on Drake?

10. I love cruise control

11. My hair!

12. Speak life!

13. I will pass

14. Tired and frustrated at times 

15. Calculates my next move

16. Fight me

17. Love her I do

18. Lotion I your friend

19. Almost gone

20. Specialness is needed

21. Get it girl

22. Must study

Get er done!

1. My head hurts

2. Just a couple of more days

3. I will pass!

4. God is....

5. The comments made me really think

6. Double standards

7. Love the game

8. Rewatching shows is fun

9. Must tackle hair

10. Studying!

11. Need you

12. My days are really off

13. You don't know my story!

14. Love my home town

15. It gets better

16. Can people objectively look at all sides?

17. I can be scared

18. I am so a morning person

19. Change is good, can be great

20. Do you know?

21. Christmas music!!!

Sex

1. Yesterday's first random that inspired the theme for today's thoughts

2. Why is there such a double standard when it comes to sex? Men and woman have very different standards

3. Yes I believe in waiting till marriage, but this is not everybody's testimony and I think too much judgement is given toward both.....people who choose to wait and people who don't

4. I went to a presentation that stated that parents should talk about sex as early as age 8, agree or not? Why?

5. My random thoughts blog on why I have decided to wait is one of my most viewed random thoughts.....took a lot for me to write

6. How do you define sex? 

7. Saw a meme or heard a friend say (honestly can't remember) a man wants a virgin who is a hoe, don't know I feel about this statement.

8. Do you think sexuality is fluid?

9. In my mind my parents only had sex 3 times.....when they conceived children. I am an adult and still sticking to this story

10. The church and discussions on sexuality much change. Saying don't do it is not working

11. People's assumptions on my views on sex.....stop it

12. As a friend's status said this morning.....nonconsensual sex is rape

13. Yes I think Bill Cosby did it, but still realize the value of the Cosby Show

14. Before my grandmother died (she had dementia) she said something that forever will traumatize me....see #9 for grandma is 2.....I have one aunt you do math

15. Glad that didn't happen

16. Do you think music lyrics talk about sex more than in the past?

17. Kids know.....don't be stupid

18. People might not agree, but I don't think you accidentally get pregnant. Not buying it

19. Some of my coworkers are too open about their sex life......I know too much

20. No matter what your thoughts are on sex, please practice safe sex. #thatsall

Smiling today

1. A note from the doctor to prove you are a virgin, seriously?

2. Light skin friend looks like Michael Jackson, dark skin friend looks like Michael Jackson

3. I think I know the answer

4. RIP flip flops

5. Black screen of death......

6. I went into hiding as usual.....I might come out of hiding next year

7. This morning is why I try to avoid Bell Road!!

8. Should not be listening to the Essential Luther Vandross

9. When was the last time I went into Hickory Hollow Mall? Or Global mall as they now call it.....

10. Our text convo was very weird yesterday

11. Think I will make the trip to Mexico next year

12. When you have to do a double take at a sign.....Vivica Fox 20 percent off (I have pic to prove)

13. Nervous.....

14. Do you ever question your purpose in life?

15. So much easier being fat

16. Whatever happened to Oaktown 3-5-7?

17. This weekend was rough, but I made it

18. The moment you scream out "I'm So Hood!" in the middle of Yolanda Adam's In the Midst of it All......this may or may not have just happened

19. Not everyone will understand your testimony. We all have different journeys in life. Just know yours is for a reason

It itches

1. Love this show

2. I have issues

3. Must work tonight

4. Teddy bear

5. Must shave

6. Shadow dance with me

7. I love her

8. What will I have for dinner?

9. Honey mustard is my fav

10. People don't get it

11. The meds are working

12. Praying for peace

13. I love you

14. Getting it together slowly

15. Tomorrow is a new day

16. What's your address?

17. The karate kid

18. Not crying as much

My nose hurt

1. My face hurts

2. The tears won't stop

3. I am not who I use to be

4. The weather is changing

5. Law and Order is a great show

6. Think I will study now

7. Why did I get on the scale today?

8. Taking a shower 

9. Will I go next year?

10. Temporary sacrifice

11. I love her

12. I hate that things changed

13. Must work this week

14. Crack is whack

15. Can't keep putting it off

16. Must get out of the funk

17. Will get out

It's Friday!

1. Hates being sick

2. I needed this day off

3. Getting fatter

4. Netflix is my friend

5. Must wash hair

6. Change is good

7. Funny valentine

8. Oops!

9. I hope you leave a message

10. White Collar is a great show

11. Things are getting harder

12. Must wash hair

13. One week!

14. Must get you

15. Guess you don't care

16. I love her 

Hurts so bad

1. The pain is still there

2. It is time for me to go

3. Holding back the tears

4. I can't stand you

5. These thoughts are a little rough

6. Nope not going to do it

7. Very, very, frustrated

8. Must push through

9. I can't get it

10. You know better than that

11. Craziness must end

12. Sneezing has stopped

13. I really need a hug

14. In Oakland.....

15. You are special to me

I love her

1. Day off of rest

2. Medicine makes me sleepy

3. Glad it's over

4. Change has to come

5. I get it

6. Go big or go home

7. Just want to be hugged

8. Why you trippin

9. I don't understand sometimes

10. Good luck!

11. The server should know better

12. Merry Christmas

13. Details

14. I want her 

Needed rest

1. Today is the day

2. Learning to trust people

3. No one has caught on

4. Positive thoughts

5. Praying for all those involved

6. You fancy

7. Wishes more people would think before they speak

8. I must be doing something right

9. You just don't get it

10. Almost time for a plot twist

11. I hate alerts on my phone

12. You should know better

13. In tiers!!!

The struggle continues.....

1. Stop living your life for social media. Enjoy the moments, stop comparing, just live life!

2. Being alone and being lonely are 2 different things.....right now I am both

3. If you got ana might not be the best song to start your day with......don't test me today

4. That one meme that gives you life right now.....post it!

5. I posted it

6. 2 weeks!!! 2 weeks!!!!!

7. I like shrimp ramen noodles #dontjudgeme

8. Ready to see family and friends at Christmas!

9. One question only.....ask it

10. Love the show Leverage! Age of the geek baby!!

11. I am a better person with regular mimosas in my life 

12. Are you worth the risk?

Sneeze

1. So manipulative

2. What was eye thinkin

3. Going to publish it

4. Go away

5. Some people just need to go

6. Why couldn't I be apart of it

7. My nose itches

8. You ain't sick

9. No way you can live alone

10. Love this show

11. Guess what day it is?

It stinks

1. Escaping the madness

2. I love her

3. Will you ever get it?

4. Hate when the time comes

5. Is my vision too big?

6. Scary is change

7. It is not that hard

8. Up, up, and away!!

9. Stupid!!

10. Cheese and bread

Easy does it

1. Long weekend ahead

2. Say no to fuckbois

3. Water is your friend

4. I get it now

5. I want to so bad

6. You have got to be kidding me!!

7. I need a massage 

8. Snakes are scare

9. Thankful for friends who care

Sinuses are evil!!

1. Sinuses got the best of me!

2. I needed rest

3. So you think you know me?

4. Too much work

5. Am I taking the easy way out?

6. Must get groceries

7. I would love to tell someone

8. You hurt me

I need you

1. Seeing the light

2. Dope dude

3. Progress

4. Your info is out of the bag

5. Needs a hug

6. You need to get that fixed

7. Will get it together!

Oops!

1. Head hurts

2. Will get better

3. Think I know the answer

4. Stop it!

5. One day

6. Any who

It's Monday

1. Too much to do before the end of the year...too much!!!

2. Scared.....how much longer can I wear flip flops???

3. Amber Rose's slut walk.....don't get it. What I saw versus what the meaning of the slut walk didn't match up 

4. Friend didn't know what "Netflix and chill" meant.....she knows now

5. When you get paid once a month and the moment when all your ebills go out at the same time, I feel like Florida Evans....damn! damn! damn!!! But thankful I am able to pay my bills

Baby it's cold outside

1. Must make a change

2. I don't want to go

3. Naps are amazing!

4. God is....

Sleep is needed

1. I should have taken a nap

2. You are funny

3. She was cute.....

Becoming better

1. Falling in love

2. So ready for the weekend

Tired

1. Long day...