Sex

1. Yesterday's first random that inspired the theme for today's thoughts

2. Why is there such a double standard when it comes to sex? Men and woman have very different standards

3. Yes I believe in waiting till marriage, but this is not everybody's testimony and I think too much judgement is given toward both.....people who choose to wait and people who don't

4. I went to a presentation that stated that parents should talk about sex as early as age 8, agree or not? Why?

5. My random thoughts blog on why I have decided to wait is one of my most viewed random thoughts.....took a lot for me to write

6. How do you define sex? 

7. Saw a meme or heard a friend say (honestly can't remember) a man wants a virgin who is a hoe, don't know I feel about this statement.

8. Do you think sexuality is fluid?

9. In my mind my parents only had sex 3 times.....when they conceived children. I am an adult and still sticking to this story

10. The church and discussions on sexuality much change. Saying don't do it is not working

11. People's assumptions on my views on sex.....stop it

12. As a friend's status said this morning.....nonconsensual sex is rape

13. Yes I think Bill Cosby did it, but still realize the value of the Cosby Show

14. Before my grandmother died (she had dementia) she said something that forever will traumatize me....see #9 for grandma is 2.....I have one aunt you do math

15. Glad that didn't happen

16. Do you think music lyrics talk about sex more than in the past?

17. Kids know.....don't be stupid

18. People might not agree, but I don't think you accidentally get pregnant. Not buying it

19. Some of my coworkers are too open about their sex life......I know too much

20. No matter what your thoughts are on sex, please practice safe sex. #thatsall

Thoughts while waiting till marriage......

1. My ultimate goal is to wait till marriage

2. This is not always easy

3. It makes sense to me

4. I often find it funny how people believe God for the material things, but don't believe he can sustain you while waiting

5. I do get tired of people's assumptions that being a virgin makes you a "good girl" associating sex to being bad or good is not cool

6. Realizes this decision has caused some people to not even attempt

7. Gets frustrated when people say they can respect my decision, but they just can't do it, to me it is saying you have no power over choices you make

8. Even if you are not waiting till marriage I truly don't understand how people can randomly sleep with people they hardly know....birth control is not 100% can you see yourself having a child with this person?

9. Waiting till marriage coupled with sometimes feeling I will never get married.....not a good feeling

10. I have never heard anybody say they regret waiting.....but I have heard plenty of people say they regret not waiting

11. My faith is the main motivation for me waiting amongst a few other things

12. I am not a unicorn!!!!

13. The look when people find out......sometimes reason why I usually don't disclose or avoid discussion

14. I still don't understand how you accidentally have sex.......there are several steps involved before you get it in

15. Please don't assume that I am naive

16. I have several friends who have waited till marriage......so it can be done

17. Temptation is real.....if someone says it is not that's a lie

18. My views are not of judgment but more of my thought process

19. Why do people equate sex to love?

20. People who say it is easier for me because I have never......please don't assume (assuming is a major theme today)

21. This is my story.......my life.....my walk.....so until you walk in my shoes

22. There is a reason why my short list are people that I can't have.....just being honest

23. This is something I am not ashamed of, don't know why anyone would be, but  I also don't look at it as a badge of honor.....it is what it is

24. Surprisingly.....my mother has no clue, she assumes too

25. When that day comes......

26. What if I never get married?

27. This past year had my first HIV/STD test......why was I nervous? 

28. Although I do feel sometimes I am the only one out there......I refuse to believe it

29. Really thinks people should have more open conversations about sex and sexuality......especially in the church

30. I am open to any questions from people who find it fascinating......but don't understand why people find it fascinating

31. Took a lot of me to type these out....and if you are reading this I actually got the courage to post it.

It's My Birthday!!!!!

1. Yes I am working today

2. We all could have made a wrong turn going to church ~Poussey

3. My coworkers are talking sexual positions they do with their husbands.....TMI!!

4. What is birthday sex? I mean if you do extra stuff just do that on random days, be spontaneous and creative everyday (coming from.....let me stop)

5. I can say it now......I am 33 today, can I still say I am in my early 30s?

6. Do I love you enough to let you go?

7. I was probably 80% successful in my social media detox

8. What I want most for my birthday.....

9. Dr. Oz says (sounding like my mother) sex only burns 21 calories.....
10. For anyone to know, they have to ask and who is asking determines the answer. ~unknown
11. Back on social media.....facebook will be used less, follow me on twitter @musicstyle
12. They decorated my cubicle
13. Head hurts
14. PMW(all I really need) ~ ASAP Rocky

15. Tried out new hair products....love them!
16. My cubicle neighbor rocks!
17. First time in a while not doing anything special for my birthday!!!
18. I won last month's contest so I get Maggie Moo's today!
19. Miley Cyrus.....no comment
20. Justin Timberlake! Memphis Represent!
21. I missed my social media peeps (I have a hard time saying family.....I don't know all of you like that)
22. Still haven't seen The Butler

23. Don't push me......
24. PMW(all I really need) ~ ASAP Rocky

25. Did you just really snort??
26. It's my Birthday!!!! Wooo!!!! Hooo!!!!

My nose is red this morning :-(

1. It is National HIV testing day!!! Do you know your status?

2. I got a better splint for my finger

3. If you are against same sex marriage.....just don't marry someone of the same sex

4. Hydrate people, hydrate!!!

5. When I was a young wharthog!!!!

6. Nelson Mandela has left his legacy.....are you leaving yours?

7. Cubicle life is not always great

8. Maybe my next tattoo will be behind my ear

9. I have a pimple on my nose and I feel like Rudolph the red nose reindeer.....my coworker says I am trippin

10. I had my first HIV test this year......why was I nervous?

11. Do you see the hypocrisy in what you say and do?

12. Instead of tear tattoos on my face would you look at me different if I got musical note tattoos on my face

13. Were you really an adult when you turned 18?

14. My apartment sent me a happy birthday email two months early.....but you didn't give me a rent discount, booooo!!!

15. Home ownership scares me

16. Giving India another try....

17. Don't be shocked when I say I have no exes

18. Why smoke weed?

19. Last night first night in a while that I did not have a beer or mimosa

20. Frozen leftovers came in handy today! 

21. Having a child is not about your desire to be loved......

22. Wake up and smell the Keisha Cole brown gel ~Dustin Ross

23. Don't ask me how many times I have listened to the latest episode of The Read

24. Should I have a theme each day to my random thoughts? Like random thoughts about milk or The Zimmerman trial? Still random but just on one topic?

25. If you are not learning in life.....what are you doing?

26. If one more person tells me I need to get married and start having kids.....how bout I go on a date first?

27. I think for July 4th I am going to go see 20 Feet From Stardom, it looks very good

May 11, 2013

1. Can't feel my legs

2. I walked 2.2 miles.....JESUS!!!

3. I still have feelings for you

4. Black women do motivate each other

5. Why are people shocked when you say you are waiting for marriage to have sex? Didn't say it was easy, but it is possible

6. The Wire gets better every time I watch it

7. Still on Lil Wayne's Rich as.....

8. Operation death of fat girl

9. Really needs to do something to my hair

10. Maybe if I tell you how I feel....

11. Foolishness!!!!!!